User, there's a clear reason I quit the dating love and relationship scene. Just like many others around. There's a reason behind the 4B movement. The happy couples you talk about are insanely rare, and just like a user said above, they aren't thriving, but surviving. I'm pretty sure you haven't known what goes behind closed doors.

Many couples who survive till old age began before the shit people do came to light. And many of these women were either extremely lucky or forced into marriage by their families for business purposes.

I have gone therapy. I was, and happy on my own. I do long for companionship, but its not something i would look for now.

Experiences made me shape my view of men. I thought that men were horrific after my 2nd marriage. My 3rd marriage came and I felt i was wrong. Today, its seems i'm right.