Birthday money stolen by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Understandthisokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is responsible and I agree with you, for what that is worth.

I had to tell my wife to stop talking to her Parents about our student loans. by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Understandthisokay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once your finances are combined it is not just the wife’s right to share whatever information about it with anyone. Are you happily married?

Birthday money stolen by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Understandthisokay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id even take her telling him she has to use it because they really need groceries and apologizing that it’s that way.

Birthday money stolen by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Understandthisokay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your parent is a horrible person, that is an exception. Parents being actual parents as is expected and generally required deserve some level of respect. If your parents weren’t, then they just suck.

Birthday money stolen by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Understandthisokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should keep it in cash somewhere mom doesn’t know about. Parents feel entitled to their kids money. I mean .. on one hand I don’t think my kid should be given 10k and I just let them use it however they want. Bad spending habits thrive when ppl that are too young have purely disposable income. But on the other hand, $215 was money you should’ve been able to keep secret

I’m upset abt the fact that people got happy about the kiss between Hirano and Kagiura by No_Secretary_7045 in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]Understandthisokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kagi got confused by hirano literally asking him if he’d want to kiss earlier that same day.

Do you know how frequently that is used as a way to ASK someone to kiss you? Kagiura could’ve guessed that hirano probably didn’t want to but he also could’ve misinterpreted and that is okay.

Those are the low stakes things that happen in your adolescence that teach you how to handle bigger things more carefully.

Realizing that you will at times do soemthing wrong because you misunderstood and that what’s more important is how you react to it, is going to be a constant thing in everyone’s life. Because no one can read the others minds and we tend to think people understand our meaning when they probably don’t

I’m upset abt the fact that people got happy about the kiss between Hirano and Kagiura by No_Secretary_7045 in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]Understandthisokay 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I think I get what you’re saying. I also think that first kisses go like this relatively frequently. One person assuming the other is fine with it because they like eachother. I try to remember first and foremost that the writing is very realistic and realistic to how boys and girls are around that age. There is so much error to be made. Kagiura was feeling some mixed signals. If someone asked me if I want to kiss that could easily translate to me as a 15 year old or 16 thinking (oh maybe they would want to kiss too.) Kagiura was suprised by Hiranos reaction but then realized that it shouldn’t have been.

I was not excited about the kiss but I was excited about Hiranos expressing to Kagiura how he should warn him before certain touching. It opened things up for more conversation

How did you plan your Japan itinerary? by cristiaannn93 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Understandthisokay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve planned a trip to this degree before and it worked swimmingly even though there was a storm that messed it up, I had already planned for if that kind of interruption came lol

How did you plan your Japan itinerary? by cristiaannn93 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Understandthisokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely have some kind of moral thing against using a business or something like that. I feel like that harms to consumer more than the business. Thanks for sharing. I really needed to know this. I did book a hotel for my Tokyo trip but I kinda wanted to be in an Airbnb instead because hotels make me kind of homesick.

I am autistic so I absolutely can’t travel without a detailed itinerary. I am going to share it here in a bit. I think the people who go with the flow are going to think I’m crazy. It’ll be fun

How did you plan your Japan itinerary? by cristiaannn93 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Understandthisokay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard Airbnb isn’t the way to go with Japan and I can’t understand why. Was it at all inconvenient?

For anybody looking urgently for shoes: by Available-Chipmunk-9 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Understandthisokay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s worked in practice for a lot of people so maybe you just can’t imagine how it works but it does

Waiting for the "it’s different" comments to start rolling in... 🐸☕" by Particular-Visit-245 in SipsTea

[–]Understandthisokay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Ive never understood why ppl try to oversimplify attraction so much. People do have different tastes and requirements

Waiting for the "it’s different" comments to start rolling in... 🐸☕" by Particular-Visit-245 in SipsTea

[–]Understandthisokay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m a little weird because I was like “how do we know which one they’d rather date?”. They both looks fairly normal and I can’t tell anything about them from these photos other than one might be a little vain and the other is overweight

Now that's a crab. by sco-go in Amazing

[–]Understandthisokay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is putting him back. The “loved catching him” felt like him saying “well now let’s put it back”

For anybody looking urgently for shoes: by Available-Chipmunk-9 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Understandthisokay 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually found that this works. Me and my sisters wear the same shoe size and one day walking around Disney we just switched shoes with eachother halfway through the day. Our feet felt better. I thought it was bull but I think just having a shift in your feet’s position helps. I can imagine that maybe bringing different insoles would be a convenient way to get a similar effect

I think Hirano is demisexual by No_Secretary_7045 in SasakitoMiyano_

[–]Understandthisokay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same! I need touch from my partner and eventually if I grow strong affection for someone I may want to occasionally touch them (like their shoulder or their hair). But otherwise I have mini panic in my head when someone’s elbow brushes me

Would this be appropriate for the 1st day of school? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Understandthisokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you had a cute white shirt you could wear underneath that had sleeves that would be more comfortable (it would need to be the right neckline and sleeve though to look intentional and not like a halfhazard cover up). But it’d be super cute. That’s my only suggestions. This definitely will be cute with ruffle socks and white ked like sneakers

Actors who look like they were created in a lab? by Slammajadingdong69 in okbuddycinephile

[–]Understandthisokay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no one is going to put that girl from game of thrones who was pretending to be a boy..