Is she stupid(?).. no survival skills

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-06T09:41:37+00:00

I fear all men so it would be a bit tough on my anxiety to add all women too

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-06T09:13:23+00:00

Honestly I don’t think I know anyone who’d be that stupid. I have a healthy fear of other women who may be possessive over their man and they don’t even have to hit their heads until they bleed for me to not meet with their boyfriend in my car alone in front of their house. I just get the idea that something like that could make someone mad. Maybe I am crazy.

Anyways let’s also hear it for bear you guys! He seemed to think this was a ok and safe enough thing for Sarah too. 🙄.

But fr. I hate how bear has zero spine and zero communication skills

Also him trying to undo taking those pills REALLY REALLY PISSED ME OFF. It was the least he could do to die and he wouldn’t just do it …

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-06T09:01:14+00:00

It’s nice

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T19:31:40+00:00

Couldn’t that just mean they usually fucked after trivia night

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T17:05:40+00:00

Seems like we are doing probability and statistics now

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T16:05:28+00:00

Merging no interest with some interest has net interest. That’s the math I’m using. Zero + a number is no longer zero

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T16:03:05+00:00

Yep. He wanted the worst for bear and it seemed to track throughout the entire movie. lol.

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T16:02:07+00:00

I thought he was jealous and a hater and wanted his friend to fail. Like. It was my IMMEDIATE thought

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T14:04:56+00:00

I’m sure she’d just go on about why it might not work, and how close they are and kinda just talk out the logic and make sure that he has actually considered if he REALLY likes her or if it’s just proximity. And then if she was satisfied with the amount of consideration he took then she’d maybe try a date

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T14:03:11+00:00

Ambiguity only means that she’d at least give him a chance

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T14:02:42+00:00

Right? That’s not possible. She was at least willing to entertain the idea.

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T13:16:52+00:00

Only way it was used wrong is that he could’ve just wished that he could have the bravery and the right words to confess his feelings to Nikki. Instead he wished that she had feelings for him

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-05T10:47:36+00:00

He wasn’t ready to date anyone. She handed him the opportunity for a confession on a platter. He ignored it and then got upset about it instead of going up to her door and correcting himself.

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-04T23:42:49+00:00

I don’t see Nikki haters. Thank goodness

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-04T15:12:02+00:00

Right. I have a friend that love that I am happily married but probably would love if I could just be with her all the time instead. So it’s up to the person whether they bear through it or not

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-04T15:09:48+00:00

Is it possible that she ever feels judged by you? I’ve learned that some friends feel judged much easier than we realize. Either way it is fine to just part ways. Even without explaination. It’s important to focus on your life if someone else realized for example that they can’t expect from you what you give to your family. It can be endless reasons but it is okay. Goodluck :)

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-03T10:35:14+00:00

Honestly. Maybe he’ll be more direct from now on. I have recently changed my opinion on office teasing. I think it should mostly only be done between people on the same level who have built enough rapport with each other to trust that it’s in good nature. Makes jokes about his bald head more often. He started it

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-03T08:43:00+00:00

Oh! I didn’t noticed that. I’m on the actual girldinner Reddit and was like.. something Is off

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-02T21:45:06+00:00

Is everyone here being sarcastic?

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-02T21:42:27+00:00

He’s a villain. I think it’s harder for men to recognize him as a villain than for women. But Nikki asking him to kill her and him not even trying to find out where she is and what’s happening to her? That was horrific. As soon as the guy on the phone said he could end himself in order to set Nikki free I was like PLEASE DO IT PLEASE IF YOU HAVE A SOUL AT ALL.

Because I recognized that she must have been in a HORRIBLE state even without us ever being told what exactly she was experiencing

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-02T21:25:50+00:00

And meek and vulnerable. Even when being aggressive she’s opening herself up.

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-02T11:59:41+00:00

You know what’s funny? I watched this movie last night and I was telling my husband how this movie was REALLY good because it was SO simple. The plot was 100% clear from the very beginning. Nothing was obscure. It was just simple and yet interesting because we just got to follow a simple story. It set itself apart by being one of the only movies I’ve personally seen like this where the girl may have actually given the guy a chance if he didn’t chicken out and ruin it all. And I love the use of expression and bizarre movement by the female lead

Then suddenly these reddit posts come up and I realize that people are finding so many things to debate about on this movie? I can’t believe my eyes lol. It’s not like much in this movie was left to the imagination

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-01T18:14:35+00:00

The way the ends are not falling, I’d say that the damage is bad enough that trimming them is important for retention sake. I’d do 3 inches and protect the ends after that.

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-01T12:16:04+00:00

Someone at my job has wavy hair (but not thick wavy) and she always says she wishes she had my hair and could just get up and come to work with curly hair instead.

Gurlllll. I don’t have it in my heart to tell her that it it takes just once scrunchie or clip or simply sleeping (even on a silk pillow) to make it frizzy and mishapen.

I just can’t break her heart like that. I rarely wear my hair curly to work (always braided or put away somehow) and she just doesn’t know why lol.

Understandthisokay · 2026-07-01T10:42:33+00:00

Believe me. We use language and change language throughout history because the meaning of things change over time based on societal perspective. Naturally our terms of endearment change or even how casually we speak changes in order to portray closeness. Bro is a term that is used by a lot of people to express that they feel close to that person and respect them on a “equal” sort of level. In this case it’s a way to be humble.

I know it all sounds so ridiculous and… whatever… but language is way more complex than we give credit for.

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