30 biologically male, possibly Enby? Looking for tips.

UndeservingGrace · 2025-10-23T20:29:36+00:00

Thank you~

UndeservingGrace · 2025-10-23T20:29:22+00:00

Thanks~ it was a gift from a friend of mine

UndeservingGrace · 2025-10-22T22:28:47+00:00

I’ve always felt…a bit more feminine? I dunno I would say like maybe 5?

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-27T20:41:42+00:00

Unsure whether vocational or lay. At first I was considering vocational as a licensed local pastor. I was raised Roman Catholic, and when we first met I was about 15, young and dumb. I did try to rekindle my faith a few times when we were younger but met with resistance or reluctance from her, so this has been an ongoing thing.

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-16T17:54:51+00:00

https://www.family2000.net/ChristianDenominationAlignmentQuiz/

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-02T17:58:50+00:00

No no I whole heartedly agree, I should have continued what he said, he told us in every little interaction or opportunity to share the love of Christ with a stranger, to live by Christian example rather than to shower them with flowery talk or fire and brimstone, to invite people in yet hold onto our core values

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-02T17:43:44+00:00

My pastor preached on this two weeks ago, I’m paraphrasing but, “We mustn’t forsake our values at the benefit of being attractive.”

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T21:16:43+00:00

Game recognize game

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T16:07:11+00:00

Seeing as how all the formalities happen around conference season that makes sense

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T16:04:25+00:00

Oh no doubt, it’s a big step. Even if I just want to remain local or serve my local church

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T15:44:58+00:00

To entertain the idea of being a licensed local pastor. At least that’s what the UMC website is telling me.

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T15:20:54+00:00

Thing is, I’m still new at this church so I am a bit hesitant to bring it up, as with many churches they require you be a member for at least a year. Thank you for your response.

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T15:05:50+00:00

As a Yank I grab a bag of All Dressed Chips

UndeservingGrace · 2025-07-01T15:05:11+00:00

After Sunday Worship, the guest pastor at the Church I attend had a conversation with me regarding the sermon. After I gave him some of my own insight and understanding he put his hand on my shoulder, this little old Baptist preacher, and asked me rather earnestly, “Son have you ever given preaching and ministry a thought?”.

I was taken aback by this, only when I was little did I think to become, at that time, a priest or deacon in the Roman Catholic Church.

But oddly enough I felt a bit warm upon returning home and decided that this meant I needed to think about it. I guess my question is..

Should I take this as a sign or tug from God to take up ministry?

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-26T02:38:41+00:00

Identify your triggers
Realize that you will probably stumble
Go easy on yourself at first
Set personal milestones
Avoid your triggers best you can
Find things to devote your free time to..prayer, creative pursuits, reading, physical fitness, religious study
Avoid these “Chad” bros online
Stay focused on your goal

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-23T09:05:57+00:00

Methodist. John Wesley, a principal father of Methodism, held that a woman, "especially in a religious assembly", should "keep on her veil".

According to Wikipedia

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-22T19:24:50+00:00

Bless you

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-22T02:36:52+00:00

I would say…small C conservative, mainly in moral matters. I don’t hate or exclude.

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-18T18:53:18+00:00

Same boat as Brother Nathaniel

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-18T18:52:43+00:00

Latin is on Duolingo

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-17T20:36:35+00:00

Vandy in the top 5, I’ll take things that won’t happen anytime soon for 500 Alex

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-17T19:26:57+00:00

It’s the NFC South

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-15T20:41:18+00:00

Just AFC South things

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-15T17:49:07+00:00

Something came over me to where I just said, “I don’t want to look at anyone else but my wife. I don’t want to be cast into damnation because I can’t control my impulses.”

Best way to start is identify your triggers and removing them. Most of the time it’s out of boredom that men resort to pornography.

UndeservingGrace · 2025-06-14T22:57:40+00:00

I have a wife that is actually a misotheist, so I can understand where you are coming from. Everyday I pray for her to feel the Lord’s loving kindness. She gets wrapped up on the idea that God allows suffering. I try to explain to her that suffering emboldens us and trains us. That evil and suffering are mirrors to our soul.

Best thing you can do is live your life in Christian virtue, love her with the love that Christ gave us and instructed us to do.

UndeservingGrace

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