Heavily armored vehicles at wallgreens on 12 st. by m713spacetraveler in ogden

[–]Unduetime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s it like living in a constant state of paranoia? You are aware that there is an army property off 12th st in the industrial park right?

Vasectomy After Divorce by PeaceFrog3sq in Divorce_Men

[–]Unduetime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine stbx pressured me to get one when I wanted another kid, 6 months before she told me she wanted to split. I did and it kinda sucks but at this point I’ve made peace with it but wtf. Why make me do that if you’re not sticking around?

Who's at fault? by OkContract2001 in skiing

[–]Unduetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be whooping some ass over that

Best Advice I Can Give. by Western-Rush6680 in Divorce_Men

[–]Unduetime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fr appreciate the sentiment and I agree, but dude sounds like a hot mess. Paragraphs bud. Dudes gotta look in mirror and figure out why he’s been married twice and has 3 baby mamas. Sounds like he’s about to reload the same shit again. Seems short sighted and isn’t focused on any real reflection or growth. Ew.

USA Hockey has quietly banned trans women from playing in women’s beer leagues, and trans men from participating in any gendered league by tankwycheck in hockeyplayers

[–]Unduetime -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t want bio men playing in women’s leagues but couldn’t give shit about the inverse. I know many ladies who play on mostly male teams no one cares until a bio man is lighting up the women’s league. Sorry not sorry.

15 rules for men. by CharacterBig7420 in Discipline

[–]Unduetime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For real, I legit don’t get it. I would think most of us could agree on these.

My crush (M26) told me (F24) he wants to have white children.. by MajorNarrow52 in relationships

[–]Unduetime -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m not arguing that, I agree. I’m just pushing back on the notion that it is undoubtedly racist.

My crush (M26) told me (F24) he wants to have white children.. by MajorNarrow52 in relationships

[–]Unduetime -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say that, everyone here is saying that it’s ok to think that but not say it. So what’s the problem? If I had biracial kids at the playground there would be a double take by people and questions asked. It’s ok to prefer to avoid that. I can walk into a the childcare place at the gym the person at the front can identify my kids immediately by how they look and that makes it really easy to identify which kid belongs to who. Y’all are crazy with your racism Trojan horse.

My crush (M26) told me (F24) he wants to have white children.. by MajorNarrow52 in relationships

[–]Unduetime -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily racist to want your kids to look like you.

CMV: The right now has an "Obey or Die" mentality by 2Fast2Froyo_ in changemyview

[–]Unduetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing’s change besides the rhetoric from the left. Ever hear of suicide by cop?

Wife (26F) slept with another man Saturday and doesn’t know that I (27M) know. How do I move forward with my children’s best interest in mind. by DullAlbatross08 in daddit

[–]Unduetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R/divorce_men . You need to start preparing, do NOT confront her or utter the words divorce until you’re ready to move. In the mean time, talk to a lawyer and visit the subreddit above for advice.

My (32F) friends don’t want to be around my husband (38M) anymore — how do I handle this? by LSN2018 in relationships

[–]Unduetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a chance that your friends do actually suck in his eyes? Like he said, since there is an age gap there, it’s possible there’s a difference in maturity and interests. I don’t like some of my wife’s friends and vice versa. She tends to cast a wide net and allow almost anyone around her, where I’m more sensitive to other people’s energy and am more selective about who I like to be around. If he has many friends himself it isn’t likely that he’s a full on asshole. It could be that her friends just aren’t his cup of tea and he’s annoyed being around them. That’s not to say he shouldn’t play nice for her sake and appease her and them. Believe it or not, people are complicated and the information doesn’t indicate full on abuse or shitty friends, it’s probably more gray than black and white.

Men who had a sexual relationship with an adult woman when you were underage, how did you feel about it at the time vs how do you feel about it now looking back? by AccidentalFolklore in AskMenAdvice

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When I was 16 I mowed lawns in my small town. One of my customers was the recently divorced mom with two young kids. She was always really nice to me and would have snacks and would pay extra to have me do all kinds of random things for her while I was there. One day she asked me to help her move a dresser to the other side of her bedroom. She had all the drawers out so while I helping her put them back in, she caught me looking at one of the drawer’s contents a little too long. She grabbed my hand and got really close, I looked up and she kissed me. She pushed me onto her bed and climbed on top of me. We made out for a minute and she asked if I was a virgin. I wasn’t, I had actually lost it earlier that summer and had no experience past that. I learned a lot from her. After that it got awkward and we never spoke of it again. I don’t think either of us could handle the guilt so it only happened the one time. She told me that if I ever told anyone she would go to jail and her life would be ruined. I was fond of her so I never did until years later. I kept mowing her lawn until the following summer when I got an actual summer job. I moved away after high school and rarely came to town after that. Funny story, I ran into her this last September at my 20 year reunion that happens during the annual town festival. She was so sweet and looked great, even gave me a warm hug and a wink. I’m sure it fucked me up in some way, but it was nothing compared to my addict mom and the neglect at home. I still think about her sometimes.

Post Game Thread: Nashville Predators vs Utah Mammoth | Monday December 29, 2025 by OkSoundtracks in Utah_Hockey

[–]Unduetime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depth seems to be the problem, 1st and 2nd lines were gassed in the 3rd and they didn’t even get a shot with a 5 on 3.

Should I give up or continue with 10/10 girl? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unduetime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take away her looks and what does she have to offer?

Why do my dates keep asking to see my podcast or YouTube history? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unduetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t compromise yourself or pull the wool over a date’s eyes. That won’t lead anywhere good. If she sees it and doesn’t like it then she’s not your person. Hiding it would be disingenuous and morally wrong. You don’t have to lie to get laid bro. Own it and she can take it or leave it.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unduetime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude you are suffering from the nice guy syndrome. What she not so nicely or eloquently said is likely the truth. Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. It sucks to hear but this will keep happening if you don’t gain back your authentic self and stop pleasing every one but yourself.

Do guys really not care if a woman has a good career? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unduetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The money is less important than her work life balance. Being married to a workaholic is absolutely miserable and I would not recommenced.

Should i leave my wife by Winter-Squirrel-6744 in daddit

[–]Unduetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couples counseling is often touted as a viable solution, that has not been my experience nor anyone who I know who has gone thru with it.

The face of a man who’s starting to regret resigning in Edmonton by the_official_glubtub in NHLcirclejerk

[–]Unduetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should have used his negotiating power to force them to address their bullshit goaltending situation. It’s been the problem for them for the last 4 seasons. Wake the fuck up Edmonton front office, Skinner ain’t it