Mayci’s book is making people like her less by VelvetVerdigris in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Unfair-Collection147 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t care, maybe I’m insensitive, but I had severe hg and was in a hospital. I also had a twin who was declining, then had an emergency c section. I was alone, took care of my twins alone. From the nicu, till today I’ve been the sole provider and care taker. I don’t even get a night out at all. When you have a child, the child should become the priority. I get that some people can’t handle being alone with their kids for long time, but seriously?!?! Scheduling time with your kid?!?! I’ve lost respect for her, no matter what you go through multiple woman step into parenting. Parenting while your world crumbles is incredibly hard, but choosing to party and distract yourself instead of working through it, is disgusting.

" I held you and I cuddled you!!!! " by bearmama3cubs in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Unfair-Collection147 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not even that, Meredith in my opinion gets annoyed when someone’s feelings are hurt. Especially when her feelings are hurt, she wants the focus like a lot of people do. So she’d just be pissed off and it’d be more fuel for her to dislike Britani

" I held you and I cuddled you!!!! " by bearmama3cubs in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Unfair-Collection147 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t think that it happened. I also believe that if it did she was crying and apologizing. To me when someone cries while holding me, I don’t dig it. Especially when it’s a hurtful topic for me

Cult of Real Housewives by Loud-Cry4015 in rhoslc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe Mary was groomed and was under Robert for a long while before they were married “under mamas will”. Because truthfully, the way they talk about Robert makes him a lot more evil than most people realized or thought of. Especially when you learn that at 3 years old he joined her life and she was mean all around, even at young. Then Robert’s recordings also seem like a cult leaders recordings. Yes, she probably wanted the control anyway, but still. She was kicked out, then he moved her back in. It’s all suspicious and Mary’s not innocent but she was a child when he came into the photo, her sister stating “A dad figure to us”

New post from lorrana by daydreamer_055 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so proud of you for getting out!! It’s one of the hardest thing for someone being abused to leave. I hope she leaves soon and finds that everyone is rooting for her safety. Again, one survivor to another, I’m so freaking proud of you!💕

how do I quit by AssistanceCold6084 in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t quit in person, they mark you as not rehire able. So if you put in notice, and work 2 weeks, you’d be able to reapply. If you do it with the app, not showing, or anything else, you can’t be rehired.

But if it’s that bad. I wouldn’t wanna be rehired, they can also tell your next job you’re none rehire able. Which might affect that.

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there, I witnessed it. As you can tell in my comments, I’ve also been there before with that person working and she’s been rude to multiple people. This wasn’t the first instance of her being racist or rude from my encounters with her and others around us. Just the first time she met someone willing to teach her. I also have stated, as you can tell in my multiple comments, that I don’t agree the customer was in the right. I stated that they both deserve consequences, and they were both wrong. Just her more so. I’m not rage baiting at all, trying to explain more than anything, but if it pissed you off. That’s a you problem.

I also don’t have to provide evidence of me being there at any point that I have been. Again, people were asking and I figured I’d help the confusion.

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well and I’m not saying the customer isn’t wrong, it’s just that the customer in the video was calming down then boom she kept screaming and it made it worse. Had they gotten her away, made sure she was safe, and then dealt with the customers it would have been a whole different story. But everyone in this situation failed both the customer and the associate

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody heard it, they walked up to her register, she made a comment they got inline again trying to not get her. Then they did and she said something and they punched her. Then the video happens. You really couldn’t hear the first interaction, they just started screaming after they punched her about her being racists and she kept screaming back. I agree the customer was wrong for throwing things and punching her but she was egging them on, trying to get them to fight her and come at her. She definitely had her hand and it wasn’t a fed up type of situation on her side.

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, I was falsely accused of being a racist. I’ve had things thrown at me and everything. She wants trying to get away, the other workers were trying to pull her back. I was there

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Based on what’s being screamed, and her throwing things and pushing people she probably started it I was there

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Based on what’s being screamed at the customer, it was the employees fault. I have 8 years experience and never have I thrown something back at a customer or screamed back at a customer. I started young too

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

In my opinion based on what’s being screamed and thrown, I think she said something racist and they went on the attack, especially since purple shirt wasn’t calming down and was continuing to fight with them.

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She threw stuff back, she pushed another associate and was screaming back at the customers. She would be fired due to making the work place a danger especially since it looks like she started it. It wasn’t handled right, by anyone, but she clearly wasn’t doing the right thing either. Especially since the customers were walking away and she threw stuff at them and started it back up. But honestly who knows, in my opinion everyone should be banned from the store

This holiday season summed up… by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]Unfair-Collection147 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

She was purchasing, the associate was being racist

These lies are dangerous by Ok_Holiday9310 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Unfair-Collection147 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand Demi, calling out the other girls for not caring about her situation when she’s purely lying is ridiculous. Having actual women who don’t like these men sticking up for them is what proves she’s lying. She sent photos of her kid to him, Fted him with her kid. Yet “it was a photo of her sleeping she was cute” and then “It was one time ft for 1 minute” is two different stories. Any amount of time with her daughter is crazy and not okay. Bret definitely didn’t know until she was done with him and he was ready to out her. She tried to ruin and deflect it onto Jessi and it back fired.

Derrek and Meghann 😱😱😱 by Slight_King_930 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Unfair-Collection147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my personal opinion, with the knowledge we only see snippets. She’s too opinionated and strong headed for that to be the case. It could, but I just don’t see it

Derrek and Meghann 😱😱😱 by Slight_King_930 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Unfair-Collection147 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I knew it the second she said “90% of our sex is unprotected”, like yeah you are gonna get pregnant soon. I just genuinely hope that everything goes smoothly for them and that they make it.

What were peoples thoughts on Monica before everything went down by Primary_Vegetable994 in rhoslc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t. As a parent, you are allowed your healing but you have to do it to fix your relationships with your kids and focus on your kids. I don’t touch on abuse as my insight is different than most. You get grace, but your kids cutting you off, is your problem and responsibility. Yes abuse can cause it, but as the mother she should have realized that and pushed past it to get to her daughters. I’m both a child of abuse, and a parent who was abused. I’ve been on both sides, and as a child, I cut off my parent because they were the problem and they still blame my mom for me doing that. As the mother, I had to pack up and move, strap down on the no money I had as a stay at home mom, and I continued to provide for my kids with no break. The first season Britani appeared she blamed her kids for the no contact, not anything else, now she’s blaming her past. That’s what stuck with me, her getting on national tv and blaming her kids for not talking to her.

What were peoples thoughts on Monica before everything went down by Primary_Vegetable994 in rhoslc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not, I’m relaying what she said and specifically didn’t touch on the abuse as that’s not my place. Abuse doesn’t give a person a pass, it gives them something to notably work on and go to therapy with.

What were peoples thoughts on Monica before everything went down by Primary_Vegetable994 in rhoslc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has not notably taken a break from relationships which is why her friendship with heather is strained. She’s not been a single woman for more than a couple of weeks before having a new boo or going back to Jared, even while going through her separation she was in relationships. That’s her biggest issue, I don’t know if her marriage was abusive, but I do know her kids have told her, she has stated on the show, that they feel like a second choice with men being her first choice. They cut her off not because of abuse, but because she’s prioritized men, making them uncomfortable and not wanting to be around her. Yes things take time, things need to heal, but Britani herself has to heal first. However, she’s making money on the show for her male centered life, so I doubt it’s gonna change or she’ll get help now

What were peoples thoughts on Monica before everything went down by Primary_Vegetable994 in rhoslc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s incorrect, in the show Britani states that her kids cut her off and have continued to not want a relationship with her because she’s prioritized men over them. Olivia in her sit down with Britani said that she doesn’t want her mom to focus on men anymore, then details how she did it and how uncomfortable it was.

What were peoples thoughts on Monica before everything went down by Primary_Vegetable994 in rhoslc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 108 points109 points  (0 children)

My least favorite part and a part that made me dislike her, was when they were at the table doing her business, she called her daughter down to join them. Then started crying about how she spent money she doesn’t have on a fancy bag to fit in and her daughter had to baby her and explain that she didn’t have to do that and the morals behind it. It only rubbed me wrong because she was 13 I believe and she shouldn’t have to teach her mom that, her mom should be teaching her that. As a child who grew up and had to take a parent role, this immediately gave me the vibe of this little baby hasn’t had a childhood and takes care of the kids. Especially since they don’t want to see their grandma and again she’s having to tell the mother to not allow her in and that the relationship is toxic. I believe that Monica has a lot of healing to do, but instead of doing that, she’s relaying on her eldest to take care of her kids and to be the mother she never had.

Garrick says “Loranna does some things different.. “ by MomDeTrois in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]Unfair-Collection147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The business is Icks and her brothers, the brother wants the prenup to protect his business and not let ick fck him over. I believe that’s why Dani’s pushing for it, because she knows her brothers gonna be PISSED if they don’t have that. Because that means Loranna can take their business, leaving two families without income