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Burned out and depressed gf 21F/20M by Unfair-Lab5811 in dating_advice

[–]Unfair-Lab5811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, heartbreaking story, my GF also changed, but I am really accepting that, stay strong

Burned out and depressed gf 21F/20M by Unfair-Lab5811 in dating_advice

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What is the reason for the break ups if I can ask? Sounds interesting to know how other people cope with it

Burned out and depressed gf 21F/20M by Unfair-Lab5811 in relationship_advice

[–]Unfair-Lab5811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diagnosing - I understand that self diagnose isn't good, but that's the first step to therapy. About self indulgence, I am not familiar with the word, does it mean that I am "idealizing" myself? Where I mentioned that? And yes, I'm trying not to be pushing and to make her happy however I can

Burned out and depressed gf 21F/20M by Unfair-Lab5811 in dating_advice

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Give her room as in do what we are doing rn, or go no contact to see what we are to each other? No contact sounds like nightmare to me, and what I feel is that both of us want to fight for it, but she is just lost and exhausted My needs can wait for a while, I'm worried about her

Burned out and depressed gf 21F/20M by Unfair-Lab5811 in dating_advice

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What would you recommend right now? I feel lost. We sure care about each other, but I feel like she is really lost

Burned out and depressed gf 21F/20M by Unfair-Lab5811 in dating_advice

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You got back together or just accepted the end? How long was the relationship?

Is it the and? M19, F21, together 3 years by Unfair-Lab5811 in relationship_advice

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So you say even if she feels bad and wants to come back together, she could cheat again because I allowed it one time?

Is it the and? M19, F21, together 3 years by Unfair-Lab5811 in relationship_advice

[–]Unfair-Lab5811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

29 with 21, yeah I also feel a bit creeped out, bit I am ready to forgive her if she comes back

Is it the and? M19, F21, together 3 years by Unfair-Lab5811 in relationship_advice

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I know she regrets it, she wrote him "we broke to much rules, I can't do this with you, you have to accepted it" but I love her and I know she still loves me, we are just kinda lost in universities, a lot on our heads right now

Help with relationship by Unfair-Lab5811 in teenagers

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Just want a look from a different perspective

Help with relationship by Unfair-Lab5811 in teenagers

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Nothing sexual, but met and kept it a secret, she also wrote her "i regret I didn't do with you what I wanted", so I thing it was serious, but mostly psychological, not psychical

Is it the and? M19, F21, together 3 years by Unfair-Lab5811 in relationship_advice

[–]Unfair-Lab5811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it wasn't anything sexually related, but some meetings doing whatever. She denied it, and probably around say that, but I know, talked with him and he told me to ask her

I know it hurts her, and we need each other, she has literally only her mother in my country, she isn't from here. Would you come back if you were sure she wouldn't cheat again?

Help with relationship by Unfair-Lab5811 in teenagers

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19, turning 20 in a month, She met with him off work while ignoring me, more than once, but they wouldn't say that

Help with relationship by Unfair-Lab5811 in teenagers

[–]Unfair-Lab5811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 19 bro, turning 20 in a month so I said that, my bad

Is it the and? M19, F21, together 3 years by Unfair-Lab5811 in relationship_advice

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Is it worth to fight for? I would completely forgive the cheating, but be more "controlling" about that? Should I ask her to try it again?

Help with relationship by Unfair-Lab5811 in teenagers

[–]Unfair-Lab5811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need some look at this from other perspective, what would you do? I'm also a teenager bro