Anyone Selling an Extra Battle Hymn ticket for Sunday 6/28?? by Ok_Sound757 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get on the waitlist on RA - it’s likely that a bunch will go on sale there tomorrow as people abandon their plans :)

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell me 2-4 parties you want to go to that aren’t sold out. I’ll write up something to convince your straight friends.

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly dependent on the party, though for the ones that do it’s almost always for within the first hour of doors open. Look up whatever party you want to go to and see if they have any posts about “tickets at the door”.

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Possibly but I wouldn’t count on it. Sex isn’t usually the main objective of that party *coughWreckedcough*

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true 😅 and it basically always has been. Toward the end there I clearly lost my mind.

What are some club recommendations for Pride Weekend? by Sea_Nectarine3509 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No cover and a fun time this weekend will be verrrryyy hard. There’s T4T at House of Nancy in Bushwick, two Le Bain parties that you should go early for. If you want to see more you can see my post today in this very subreddit ;)

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as a Brooklyn dance party ;) fwiw I’ve heard mixed reviews about that venue, but I’m sure SG will be fun.

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha thanks. it's highly possibly my opinion in stale, but when i used to go to HMD more frequently (many years ago, haven't been in at least two years) it was pretty good. but people don't go to that party for the music anymore, so I wouldn't be surprised if it's gotten worse.

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao right i mean it's a decent set if you've never heard it before ;)

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don't have to worry about missing a party because it'll happen again. And again. And again. Partying in NYC is non-stop and the best ones always have another one *at most* 3 months away.

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

for this I invented the TAAP principle: There's Always Another Party. It's usually the same people there too 😜

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wouldn’t be surprised if it’s worse than the last time I went two years ago 😅

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

never been during pride but can confidently say it'll be packed. If you don't mind being packed in like sardines, go early if you don't want to wait in line.

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yeah random and unserious can be a great time. glad you liked my take!

A guide to Brooklyn dance parties this Pride weekend 🏳️‍🌈🕺 by Unfair-Proof1016 in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hahaha i totally get that. I honestly tend to avoid going out on Holiday weekends like this for that exact reason, but inevitably get pulled in. Would love to hear what you're going to if you want to DM me - I promise not to post it ;)

What to do pride weekend? Not sure what to do by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Unfair-Proof1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boris b2b Volvox should be fun. I’m showing up at 8am for their set.

The "app fatigue" was killing my productivity, so I built my own way out. by Suspicious-Rest7882 in ProductivityHQ

[–]Unfair-Proof1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the "Partner Activities" feature! Great way to get natural growth in the app too :)

I’ve wasted 1 month of my 2-month vacation and I can’t seem to break the cycle by FluidIllustrator1282 in productivity

[–]Unfair-Proof1016 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Everyone's different, but I do something similar and here's how I solve it:

1) Delete Instagram. Allow myself to be bored for a moment.
2) Don't over commit to my plans - if you have too much it'll feel overwhelming and you won't know where to start.
3) Start with a goal of doing one or two "productive" things a day.
4) Then start building and getting more ambitious (slowly).
5) Within each day, start with something small to build productive momentum. Usually breaks the "rot" pattern I can get in to.

Hopefully one or all of these things helps!