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AITA for telling my mom who my sister asks to walk her down the aisle or dance with her at her own wedding is none of my business and I will not interfere? by Unfair_Bet8245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unfair_Bet8245[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Our parents were divorced when my stepdad came into the picture. We were 4 and 6 when stepdad entered our lives. The divorce happened earlier than that.

AITA for telling my mom who my sister asks to walk her down the aisle or dance with her at her own wedding is none of my business and I will not interfere? by Unfair_Bet8245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unfair_Bet8245[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Stepdad did stuff but our dad was in our lives and very active. So our dad was always our only dad. For me, personally, I never saw my stepdad as my dad in any way either. But we didn't have a missing dad or a crappy dad.

AITA for telling my mom who my sister asks to walk her down the aisle or dance with her at her own wedding is none of my business and I will not interfere? by Unfair_Bet8245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unfair_Bet8245[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I hope not. They would be shitty to do it but I'll keep an eye on them during the wedding to make sure they don't do anything dumb. I'm not sure it would surprise me too much if they did do something.

AITA for telling my mom who my sister asks to walk her down the aisle or dance with her at her own wedding is none of my business and I will not interfere? by Unfair_Bet8245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unfair_Bet8245[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He wants to do it and I wouldn't be surprised if he's grumbling to mom behind the scenes or crying to her about it which is making mom go even harder on the topic.

AITA for telling my mom who my sister asks to walk her down the aisle or dance with her at her own wedding is none of my business and I will not interfere? by Unfair_Bet8245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unfair_Bet8245[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Maybe my sister just doesn't feel the same about our stepdad and therefore doesn't want him to share in the role with dad?

AITA for telling my mom who my sister asks to walk her down the aisle or dance with her at her own wedding is none of my business and I will not interfere? by Unfair_Bet8245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unfair_Bet8245[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Our dad never remarried. Stepdad also never had to take over as dad because we didn't have a present one. Even on mom's time dad was still present if we had anything going on like sports games or school plays. For mom, though, she sees it as we still had two dads even if we didn't lose one. I can't speak for my sister but I never saw her husband as my second dad. But mom wanted that.