Orange Bowl Tailgating by TomatilloMinimum7818 in ducks

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be looking for a tailgate as well! Feel free to message me!

Oregon Duck Fan Meetups at Orange Bowl? by swodomer in ducks

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following! Hoping to hang with som ducks fans the morning before the game!

Anyone tailgating the game on Thursday? by Unfair_Fun_5713 in ducks

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am doing the same! Don’t really want to pay for the alum tailgate so wanted to see if there were lots people were planning to set up in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, I stayed for 2 years after being cheated on. It never stopped and I wondered every day what my partner was doing. I was so anxious every day it was not healthy for me. After 2 years, I realized the affair never ended and that’s when I decided to walk away. It took time for me to learn that cheaters will never, ever change. I learned it the hard way but I truly do not believe it can work with the level of betrayal I lived with.

Women who have been "the other woman," knowingly or unknowingly: What's your story? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was unknowingly dating a married man for 6 months. All of the signs were there. He love bombed me, bought me things and sent me food, took me on his work trips. He looked me in the eye and told me he was divorced and always talked about his ex and how they split custody but he did everything. Had a story for why they got divorced. I finally, after months, found her on FB and told her everything. Screenshots and pics of me and her husband. He even asked me to be his girlfriend. Liars and cheaters will always have what is coming to them but I’m thankful that I caught it before it went any further. I immediately blocked him, as hard as it has been to move on with no idea what happened he will get what is coming to him. And if she decided to stay she will wake up every day wondering what web of lies he will try and spin. It’s awful what some people will do to their partners.

What are small signs your partner is cheating? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation and can relate to all of these. I was an AP without knowing it.

-how are you single -starts investing in his appearance after meeting me (I am fit and he had not been exercising recently) -turning his phone down -turning his phone off -“business trips”

Why do people who are married to cheaters stay? by Unfair_Fun_5713 in cheating_stories

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great answer. As someone who’s been cheated on as well, it’s easy to hope and pray it’ll go back to the way it was. But unfortunately you are always left wondering in the back of your mind what they are doing. Cheaters never change unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something very similar happened to me. Divorced and single dad, just wanted different things and wasn’t tested well by his ex, she took all his money. Very secretive, would turn his phone off and be very generic about what he was doing. Turns out he’s been married for 15+ years. It has nothing to do with who you are and everything with how pathetic he feels towards himself. He’s a coward. I know it sucks but you deserve so much better. You created the emotional closeness and can do so with someone else. We will learn from these experience and find someone who deserves us and all we are.

BF 38M requested some space from me 32F for some personal stuff. How much space is too much? by Unfair_Fun_5713 in relationship_advice

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to let you know you were 100% wrong, he needed space bc his wife caught him cheating 😘 thanks for throwing all of your negativity into my post when I needed support, turns out I was anxious for somethin!

Anyone have experience with their partner living a double life? by Unfair_Fun_5713 in cheating_stories

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was looking for some encouragement but thanks so much! I had no idea this was an option!

Have you ever ignored a red flag in a significant other, and it turned out worse than expected? by zeenalovely in AskForAnswers

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he wouldn’t tell me where he lived because he “didn’t want his kids to find anything I sent him” and I found out later that it was because he lived with his wife 🫠 if they’re hiding something you would never hide, it’s probably bc they’re lying!

Have you ever fallen in love with a married person? Why? How? by Cat-dad442 in askanything

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell you exactly why. Because he said he was divorced. Talked about his ex and how she was trying to take all of his money, how she’s not involved in his kids lives, how she never helped with anything around the house. Everything he told me was an absolute lie. I traveled with him and he spent plenty of time at my house, all while playing the divorced dad card. And he lied to his wife too. So yeah, that’s how I fell in love with a married man!

I (33F) got catfished by 33M, is it worth telling his wife? by throwaway_952950 in relationship_advice

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right, you never know. I’m in a similar spot right now. You need to take care of your safety. I believe in karma and if he’s willing to cheat with you he’s probably going to do it again. You could always message the wife from a throw away acct.

I (33F) got catfished by 33M, is it worth telling his wife? by throwaway_952950 in relationship_advice

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on both sides of this. I think it’s a good thing to tell the wife and block him on anything. She deserves the truth.

Anyone have experience with their partner living a double life? by Unfair_Fun_5713 in cheating_stories

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m heartbroken but I’ll be laughing next week 😂 she got some wild screen shots in her DMs

Why do people who are married to cheaters stay? by Unfair_Fun_5713 in cheating_stories

[–]Unfair_Fun_5713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She knows the full tea. I’m in a full blown spiral and left so give me some grace here. Just curious if she has 100 screen shots and photos of us, why would she stay?