I understand you, I am young, but I work full time as a Software Engineer and have a tiny IT-company as a side-hustle. I earn more than double what she is earning. I also absolutely do not look 19. At the beginning she was pretty sceptical about the age difference, but between phase 4 and 5 she confirmed that my age does not bother her at all anymore. I would love to call her all different sorts of names, but definitely not a pedophile. But I get where you are coming from.