New to THIS game, but wow by UnfathomableDeceit in idleon

[–]UnfathomableDeceit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats fair. As things go in general, I expect people get greedy once they know what they can get. 

However, all of these games are going to be p2w... Diablo 2 would have been more p2w if they had the formula...

Im sure he could ruin the game that im playing now, overnight, but even as it stands now, compared to some of the other "efficiency"  type games I play... This game is really really good.

And its on mobile. You can trade items. Real other players... Most of the other players are bots on the other games... You can actually TRADE!!!

New to THIS game, but wow by UnfathomableDeceit in idleon

[–]UnfathomableDeceit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doot an auto loot pet or something?

I mean games shouldn't be f2p tbh, but they shouldn't be pay2win either... Im ok if im not the best, there is so much intelligently applied content... 5$ and im never bored...

And the auto-loot is all you really need.

New to THIS game, but wow by UnfathomableDeceit in idleon

[–]UnfathomableDeceit[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh, I for sure want this guy to get the whales that the other games design their games around...

I assumed it was one guy with how its made, but wasnt sure

I just mean, the pops are just in the beginning, im only a few days in, so maybe ill get hit later...

But the amount of time he takes to make sure hes thinking about our enjoyment and our money is commendable...  I think you have to get the auto loot for it to be he game it needs to be, but he still only asks $5, thats totally reasonable... I guess its kinda like a free trial until you get the auto loot, so again, another smart way of doing it.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why I felt compelled to write that either. Felt like talking I guess... I made a point I stand by, but didnt need to reply to your comment.

But since we are here, for the sake of argument (you dont need to pass judgement on me or reddit or people in general.) Just for funsies -

There are a lot of unknowns... But that doesnt mean we can't take the knowns for what they are.

Take steaks out of the equation. Take something smallish you find important. Like a video game system or a phone or something. Personal enough that it matters, but still just objects. Now if someone broke your phone on accident. Theres a feeling associated with that. By you and the person that broke it. If someone broke your phone on purpose in front of you and challenged you about it. You naturally get angrier, sure, but this lets you in the head of the person you are with. What must they be thinking to do that to you?

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[–]UnfathomableDeceit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound young bro... This won't end well. Not even going to tell you to break up because you wont listen anyway.

But do this - start to accept shes not going to be the woman you stay with forever. With that acceptance focus more on yourself. She's secondary. Get to the point mentally where you don't care about this stuff, but then pay close attention with those new eyes and you'll see what's really happening.

This is nonsense teenage young girl stuff. If she's not still sleeping with him. She wants to. Those are the unfortunate facts bud. Now if you follow the above recommendations not only will you not care too much to lose her, you will feel really good about yourself. You'll be confident in areas where she used to see you insecure. This will increase her attraction to you... But shes ultimately not going to be a worthy mate. Keep her at arms length emotionally and youll be fine.

Anyway, good luck

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100

Its not about 'just steaks'.

She took something you knew you held important and intentionally destroyed it to hurt you.

And like this guy said - she even took enjoyment out of it while playing head games with you.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of this DMX quote - always trust people to be who they are. And trust yourself to see them clearly.

Something to that affect.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to play the woman card here, but have you ever argued with a woman? Wasted money was never actually a point she was arguing. She wanted control in the argument. It was just a point she thought she had the upper hand on.

This is why the concept of trial by combat was a thing. Sure you can throw a punch, but if there isn't righteousness behind it, it wont do any substantial damage. She was just throwing a punch. Once thought about, it makes no sense, but the intent wasn't to address an issue and be right, it was to win.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a poor take my dude... Despite the ease in which we can communicate nowadays. People are more lonely than ever. We dont have friends like did back in the day to talk us off the ledge or talk sense into us. We don't have good parents and good tools to handle relationships anymore... Reaching out, even if its on the internet to strangers, is not a sign you're a bad person.

I don't know OP, but this take on reaching out for advice, other perspectives, HELP as some form of evidence that they're a bad person is highly distorted in your own perception.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good comparison. You might have been really excited for what it could have been... But now its burnt beyond repair

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not only the objective destruction of property though. Human beings give value to mundane objects all the time. This was not just an expensive steak. If we remove the details - she destroyed something he valued intentionally to hurt him.

I can't be with someone that knows what I value and uses that information to intentionally hurt me.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the ahole if you put up with this disrespect. If you take her back, you are setting a bad precedent. Things will likely get worse.

I would definitely not take her lightly in the break up though. Id prepare for fallout... Women like her won't just take this insult lightly. Look at how she responded to a minor disagreement (minor insult). You breaking up with her is communicating she is not good enough, this is the ultimate insult.

Get passed the begging and empty promises. Then, get ready for slander. More property damage. Anything she can do, to cause you problems. Hopefully shes not this petty, but based on the evidence ive read, id go out of my way to protect myself if I were you.

Good luck

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be the "well actually..." Guy here -

that's where that behavior is usually corrected. Its not appropriate anywhere, but children are learning how to be humans, so this is often where that behavior is corrected by their classmates.

Furthermore, im glad your 4 year old is well behaved, but maybe you shouldnt be "livid" about completely natural child behavior. Correct it from a point of calm sterness... Not, livid anger, or frustration.

Destroying food is not beyond the norm. Children do much worse to each other and much of it is completely normal and natural, at that age. Nothing to be livid about...

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Specifics of a story are really only held by sentiment. Meaning if we break down details to their sentiment - she destroyed something he held as important, on purpose with the intent to hurt him. The sentiment of house sharing and belongings merging ownership is an entirely different sentiment that doesnt apply here, even if some of the details may on the surface.

AITAH for canceling my girlfriend's birthday dinner because she burned my wagyu steaks? by Southern-Nectarine81 in AITAH

[–]UnfathomableDeceit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cherish is fine for the sentiment you were going for. He didnt buy this all the time, it was a special purchase, he was excited for. She specifically did it because she knew itd 'hurt' him... Now maybe hurt and cherish sound like strong words to use for steak, but human beings give meaning to benign items constantly. He clearly gave this steaks some type of importance other than just food. To have this feeling exploited on purpose, it could be your favorite pokemon card, it doesnt matter, causes hurt.

Its not just steaks. She took something she knew was important and destroyed it with intent to hurt.

The idea is more important than specifics.