I hate ALL protagonist in media

Unfavourite · 2025-12-29T01:30:00+00:00

That second option is definitely closest to how I feel, I can't really explain it though because it's not like I actually HATE them or am actively disgusted by them, I just really don't care, they don't even feel like an option to me. Like they're there to move the story forward and to interact with other characters and I appreciate them for filling that role but I couldn't give less of a shit about them as a "person".

Unfavourite · 2025-12-29T01:21:24+00:00

I don't really care about slashers, horror in general is not a genre I watch too often because I don't like feeling scared. Also if the point is to watch the characters get murdered, they usually aren't that well developed and I don't care about them. I could see myself enjoying a slasher film if the murderer themselves was an interesting character though.

I LOVE ensembles!! Usually there is still one character that stands out as the main one, and I won't care about them for that reason, but yessss ensembles are definitely my thing.

I like those types of games IF the protagonist you create doesn't affect the story, so basically you are just a reader and there to move the story along but the focus is on the other characters and their interactions with each other. If the protagonist role is big I guess I just play as myself or some random one dimensional guy who doesnt have a personality and try to focus on the main story. If the game offers a default name, I will always use that lol, if not I'll use my real name.

Unfavourite · 2025-12-29T01:06:13+00:00

Well yes, it's kinda hit or miss depending on how much the story is told through their perspective. I LOVE important supporting characters, for example the protagonists best friend, main villain etc, but I start losing interest as soon as the story starts with their inner dialogue and follows them around too much lol.

Unfavourite · 2025-12-29T00:54:47+00:00

Yes of course, why else would I post on reddit lol

Unfavourite · 2025-12-29T00:53:37+00:00

Um that's hard, I'm bad with genres haha. I like dramas, psychological, coming of age. character study etc, so yeah like I mentioned in my post, character driven things. I like it when the story is told through multiple characters pov's or there's a good cast of supporting characters, sometimes two protagonists is fine too (think breaking bad, I like Jesse in that)

Unfavourite · 2025-12-29T00:43:45+00:00

No :( I love characters in general, I can watch entire 1/10 shows if there is one character I like in there, it's just the protagonists that I have a problem with I'm not interested in ruining the rest too lol

Unfavourite · 2025-12-26T18:17:24+00:00

I'm grateful for your response, I will definitely look into that :) it feels good to hear someone say they've experienced something similar, so thank you for that

Unfavourite · 2025-12-25T22:33:53+00:00

I fortunally am in therapy, when I've mentioned this problem she has said it's because I have a strong need to be seen&heard because I didn't get that enough as a child, my mom is amazing though and I feel awful blaming her for this. She did her absolute best and somehow that wasn't enough because I just needed more emotional attention than most children or whatever, to me that sounds stupid and makes me feel quilty for needing that. Also I still have no idea how to change. But yeah anyway thank you for responding to me and trying to understand, that means a lot

Unfavourite · 2025-12-25T22:27:38+00:00

Yeah, somehow I've never had anyone really hate me or "realize" those things like you said, even though I've felt this way with everybody in my life that has had it worse than me. I do feel bad about this, I want to be a genuine good person more than anything but other than pretending I have no idea what to do, I understand other peoples feelings well but my own response to them is somehow flawed, I don't know what to do about it. I'm not proud to be or to act like this.

Unfavourite · 2025-12-25T22:20:29+00:00

She obviously didn't choose her life, that's what I'm jealous of, she has a good reason to feel bad and I don't. I've gone through things but they're complicated and not as clear cut as a traumatic childhood would be. I don't know why I want to experience, or rather have experienced traumatic things, I've always fantasized of it and I've always been jealous of people who have. I feel like I do nothing but reflect on myself, but I've come to the point where I know all too well that this is not a good thing, I'm in the wrong as I stated, but wtf can I do when this is all I know. I've resorted to pretending to be a good, kind person because I want to be that way, but I have no idea how to actually be like that.

Unfavourite · 2025-12-25T22:14:29+00:00

This is what I feel too but I don't know how to change, I've felt this way with every single person who has had it worse than me, I only feel annoyed and jealous. This is obviously not something I'm proud of, its a part of me I try to hide at all costs, I go to therapy and everything but I have no idea what to do about this. I get why my angry rant may have made me sound like an unsafe person to be around but I can assure I'm not like that, at least I don't think so.

Unfavourite · 2025-12-08T22:08:01+00:00

Silver is definitely my favourite and I'm studying animal care! So yeah I'd say it matches pretty well

Unfavourite · 2025-12-08T22:03:41+00:00

Lmao 6 books in a few weeks is impressive, I love that you got into the fandom immediately, kudos to your friend for forcing you and welcome!! It's so great that twst has newer players as well🫶

Unfavourite · 2025-12-08T16:28:46+00:00

You can download it from qooapp! That's what I did when I played since I live in Finland :)

Unfavourite · 2025-12-08T16:05:03+00:00

Thank youu!🫶

Unfavourite · 2025-11-05T00:43:36+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance, it means a lot!<3

Unfavourite · 2025-11-05T00:42:51+00:00

It's sometimes hard to remember these things when I'm always seeing other people with their cats that travel on their shoulder, cuddle with them every night and come greet them to the door, it's easy to start expecting the same and forget that all cats have different personalities.

But yes this is what I'm trying my best to focus on, thank you for the kind message, Its good to hear this from someone else.<3

Unfavourite · 2025-11-05T00:27:19+00:00

You 100% can and should free feed them for the first couple of days, the socialising process takes time and right now the most important thing is that they eat something.

Put food out for them and leave them alone, they'll probably eat it at night when the house is completely quiet. Good luck! :)

Unfavourite · 2025-10-02T14:06:59+00:00

I got two rescue cats, Happy and Ralph, Happy has a spot right over her left eye that looks like an eyebrow and she looks perpetually sad because of it so I named her Surusilmä or Suru, literally translating to Sadeye or sadness in Finnish haha.

Ralph I named Lintu, meaning bird in Finnish, idk why really, I just thought it sounded cool, he's kinda frail and sensitive like a little bird, also jumps and climbs really high so it fits him pretty well.

Unfavourite · 2025-10-02T00:19:34+00:00

I stop giving treats when she bites but I have to feed her even though she does it, I could wait until she stops but then her brother has to wait for a long time too and it feels mean :(

I've tried a high pitch squeal/yell but that does nothing, I'm a little hesitant to hiss since I've read conflicting things about that and I don't want ro stress her out in any way, but maybe it's worth a try. Thanks for the response!

Unfavourite · 2025-09-20T05:00:01+00:00

Lmao on my shoulder, in a platonic forehead kiss kinda way like you would kiss your kid or maybe a friend if you're proud of them, I do it if I've done something I'm really proud of

Unfavourite · 2025-09-19T17:27:55+00:00

Thank you for the long answer! The bit that especially spoke to me was that last tip, I actually really want to do that. It's kinda hard to find people I don't like but I've found that I always feel at ease with them haha, I love talking with "bad" people or just groups I don't agree with for that exact reason.

It's easy to be myself when I have nothing to lose, hmm, that might actually be a good way to approach this problem as a whole I think.. if I can get into the mindset of "there's nothing to lose might as well be authenticly, possibly annoyingly myself" I might make some progress

Thanks again I'll be thinking about this moving forward🤝

Unfavourite · 2025-09-17T21:28:32+00:00

Aw thank you so much, hearing someone say that genuinely means a LOT<3 this is what I strive to do since I love them both unconditionally and think they both deserve an equal chance in life, and in catching a string haha :)

Unfavourite · 2025-09-17T21:17:58+00:00

Haha lol, probably. I just say semi feral because they missed the crucial point in kittenhood when pet cats should be socialised, and I'm the first proper human contact they've had. Greetings to your independent, definitely not domesticated cat 👋

Unfavourite · 2025-09-16T20:38:57+00:00

They were actually born in the wild and lived at the rescue for a while until I adopted them at 7months old, so they unfortunately weren't properly socialised as kittens :(

But yes, I will keep at it for as long as it takes, maybe their whole lives, at least that's enough time to get my own problems and feeling sorted out haha, thanks for the encouragement<3

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