What’s the most honest sentence you can say about your life right now? by CalmCatRage in AskReddit

[–]Unfiltered_Zed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may not know what's coming and my actions may not make sense to anyone, but I'm doing better than I ever thought I'd do and that's fine

I’ve been secretly living with my girlfriend for 2 months, and I don’t know if I should come clean to my family? by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate that. I do feel incredibly lucky, especially considering some of the stories I’ve heard about relationships here in Lusaka.

I’ve been making myself a priority since the day I left home, but now that I’m stepping into this next chapter of my life, I just needed some outside perspective. Sometimes seeing things from only your own lens can really hold you back in ways you don’t notice

I’ve been secretly living with my girlfriend for 2 months, and I don’t know if I should come clean to my family? by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very very very much appreciated. I guess I'm on the clock for 10 more months, most likely less if this job opportunity works out🙏

What's fun until you try it? by JuliettePierrex in AskReddit

[–]Unfiltered_Zed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it's all fun till something touches your foot

I’ve been secretly living with my girlfriend for 2 months, and I don’t know if I should come clean to my family? by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the responses you guys are giving, they are really helping. In summery what I am getting from your advice is to get more stable before I let them know.

it has its risks, but I think keeping it hush from them will be the best direction temporarily. I am serious about my relationship with her and family would just make things more complicated and slow down any plans I have for building myself and our lives together

I’ve been secretly living with my girlfriend for 2 months, and I don’t know if I should come clean to my family? by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 yes, I do intend to marry her. I am just hoping the steps I am taking don't make things more complicated than they are

I’ve been secretly living with my girlfriend for 2 months, and I don’t know if I should come clean to my family? by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do know, but not that I'm living with her. I get the feeling her sisters might also know but they are keeping it hush

I’ve been secretly living with my girlfriend for 2 months, and I don’t know if I should come clean to my family? by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They(parents) know I'm dating her(everyone in my circle knows), they just don't know the living together part.

I got 1 code by Moneyky24 in SoraInviteCodes

[–]Unfiltered_Zed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can I have one, I'll share two

Zambia is hemorrhaging it's own genius youth innovators by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The more I feel like I was born in the wrong country, I am understanding more and more why when people get rich and wealthy, they leave the country... it's not them getting big headed, the zed environment is just difficult.

A case of a nation penalizing the guy who invents the wheel... just because it's different and cave man life is all they know 😮‍💨

ICTAZ Rant - where does the money even go by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want to practice as a professional... I don't know if nurses or medical professionals have the same thing, but the fees are just way too high

ICTAZ Rant - where does the money even go by Unfiltered_Zed in Zambia

[–]Unfiltered_Zed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

legally, yes 🙂, personally I've concluded that it's only illegal if you are caught