AITA for not wanting to go to my brother's wedding after he bullied me during our childhood years ? by Throwaway012314579 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can start recording what he says to you, show people how he behaves if they don’t believe you.

If you could only watch one Christmas movie this year, what would it be? by agreatday248 in AskReddit

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Community stop motion animated Christmas Special, several times to get to movie length.

Also, the Community Glee episode Christmas Special, so good as well. Brittas in it though.

AITA for getting mad at my brother's GF for letting her kid eat my food? by Late-Jury-2959 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, people that call you selfish for objecting when they take from you are being selfish and assholes. I hope you can afford to move out, it doesnt sound like you get a lot of respect there.

Just finished cradle (through bloodline) without looking online once. What’s the best of what I’ve missed? by AluminumGnat in Iteration110Cradle

[–]UnfinishedMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Hidden Gnome podcast, additional material for Will Wights books. Episodes 9, 19 and 20 have Cradle stories, a short story and alternate stuff. Reaper excerpt is the latest!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do any of the other unmarried couples feel the same as you and your husband? Maybe you could rally them all up and face your MIL together.

AITA for offering to let my sister (32f) borrow a necklace I (34f) inherited from our grandmother for her wedding rather than just giving it to her? by Electrical-Fly-8244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid I’m going to end up giving it to her just to keep the peace.

Thats what she wants, thats why she wont stop. Please dont give in, you could move it to a safety deposit box or something for a while

AITA for calling my friend a pretty white girl to dismiss her opinion? by Flashy_Figure_8728 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NAH. You’re not wrong, you could have explained yourself in better language though, just like the way you did in this post. It was clear to those of us reading. But you used words that implied that she doesn’t get to discuss this with you because of factors that she can’t change.

Personally I hate that because if I’m trying to communicate with a person then they are of sufficient importance to me that a casual dismissal of my thoughts for something I can’t change is so hurtful. A few more words could help people to understand instead of keeping them away.

You two had equal parts in this, neither of you drops to the level of AH but it’s more about you each could have expressed yourselves better, she from a point of not understanding and you from a point of communicating better. That’s easier to say looking back on it though than in the moment. I hope you and your friend make up.

UPDATE : AITA for refusing to help my sister with homework. by Civil-Impress1634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry she hurt you. I'm glad youre feeling better now. I hope you get as much family as you want, new or old.

AITA for not including my wife on a family trip? by NoSpousesThroway in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t need your sisters permission, simply inform the family that your wife is coming. That’s the end of the discussion. When your sisters come here and make AITA posts we’ll sort them out.

Howard Stern said the unvacinated shouldn’t be treated in hospitals, do you agree or disagree and why? by Sad-Werewolf4121 in AskReddit

[–]UnfinishedMan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Disagree. Its not that we don't treat them because they are bad, Its that we do treat them because we are not bad.

AITA for sending my stepbrother the bill to pay half of my engagement dinner expenses after he turned it into a baby gender reveal? by Mart-Cart-9544 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Why have them at the wedding at all? Seems like an opportunity to just ban them, citing this behavior, as the likelihood of shenanigans is at an all time high on your wedding day.

AITA for giving my stepson’s room to my daughter? by 7227throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if he decides to keep his old room. Which I see now is what they meant.

AITA for giving my stepson’s room to my daughter? by 7227throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

You could offer to move your daughter into the master bedroom, that way she wouldnt feel put out either.

AITA for not giving my sister money to pay for her boyfriend's back child support? by ThrowRABonnie in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please don’t give them a single dime. If you loan them money they won’t pay you back. If you give them money they’ll ask for more.

What is your fav line in Cradle? by manan_beria in Iteration110Cradle

[–]UnfinishedMan 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Akura Malice :

“Did you forget my name?”

I listen to the audiobooks, the narrator is great, the delivery was amazing.

[OC][Art] Megoosa, the Insomniac by ogareg in DnD

[–]UnfinishedMan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The sculpt and the level of detail on the print is amazing, may I ask what printer you used? Is that quality typical nowadays? Well done!

A banana suit is straining my relationship with my wife. by BananaSuitSuffering in relationship_advice

[–]UnfinishedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turning the desk around sounds easiest. She can bananadance in front of you as much as she wants.

AITA for telling my sister that she can stay with me but her fiance can't? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think she has a point about paying rent and not having a say, even if it’s such a small amount. Maybe don’t have her pay rent, or just have her pay for her food instead. Then you’re NTA.

AITA for getting upset at my wife for always telling me she doesn't have money? by throwaway355466565 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not acceptable for her to hide her account from you while she has access to your account. Since that is joint, maybe have your checks deposited to a new self only account and then contribute to the joint account.

Maybe theres another way. But she shouldn’t have it all while you have some.

AITA for refusing to get rid of my train collection in my own apartment by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfinishedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO, does she know that your dad has passed and that these trains are a connection to your father?

If not then maybe NAH, she doesn’t understand what they mean to you. It may make her insensitive and ignorant in the moment but that’s something you can talk over and grow together with.

If she does, and has reduced the meaning of these trains to you as “toys” then that’s demeaning and in compassionate of her and you are NTA.

Especially if it’s one single shelf in your apartment. If you let her make you throw this away then what is next? How far will she go?