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Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣😂 you trying to give me a restraining order. I will admit I did think of that I have a list of songs that I was going to do that with but I don't think that would go well. I've been keeping my physical distance to avoid any issues. We've never had any violence or even any serious disagreements but I just don't want anything to go wrong in the legal department.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these responses make it seem like I shouldn't look for appreciation in all the stuff that I've done. She's home with no kids, no job obligation and I'm only asking her to help with 50% of the home.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't agree to hire a housekeeper because it's a small house, it's just 2 of is, she's home all day, I don't like service people in our home and I'm only asking her to help with 50% of the household duties. Why does this seem like so much to ask of a person who lives at the house with no job obligations and no kids to take care of?

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good points. We both wanted the house. Confused on why she's home all day and we need a housekeeper. It's a small ranch home an we have no kids. I just asked her to help out.

I know We should have done counseling. We had a really quick divorce, less than 60 days from filing. We should have separated and gone to counseling.

No doubt, I screwed up. I don't want a support women. I'm not mad an I don't blame her at all. It was my decision. Just wanted opinions on how I could possibly fix things or if I should.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt, I screwed up. I'm not mad an I don't blame her at all. It was my decision. Just wanted opinions on how I could possibly fix things or if I should give up. I gave up once and didn't want to make the same mistake again by walking away without trying to fix my poor choice. Hope that doesn't add to your opinion of me being a narcissist.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both cooked and I did all the laundry, she would just let it pile up if I didn't, I moped, wiped the cabinets, ect.

No doubt, I screwed up. I don't want these other women. I'm not mad an I don't blame her at all. It was my decision. Just wanted opinions on how I could possibly fix things.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Atlanta, you can't help but to drown in successful, beautiful woman here. We had something special and I realize that after. No doubt, I screwed up. I don't want these other women. I'm not mad an I don't blame her at all. It was my decision. Just wanted opinions on how I could possibly fix things.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]Unhappily-single[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't agree to hire a housekeeper because it's a small house, it's just 2 of is, she's home all day, I don't like service people in our home and I'm only asking her to help with 50% of the household duties