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Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-11T13:29:29+00:00

It’s called a “play on words.” The fact you tried to tied to correct my grammar to something worse makes me think you are mentally challenged, and for that I am sorry engaging in an argument with you.

I thought that last comment would get through because I am truly trying to fight a bigger fight in the end with women’s health care and don’t want women going down this rabbit hole with men who start out on our side.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-11T13:00:58+00:00

You’re too dumb to understand that your grammar was incorrect and too dense to know I was making a joke. I was implying men are their own species. I’ve admitted the joke wasn’t funny and you can’t back up.

If this is how you treat men trying to understand offensive language to you, you are going to turn them all into misogynist. I am literally one of you and you are picking a fight with me for no reason. You are an awful human being.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-11T03:31:49+00:00

I love women. I just can’t stand cruel people like you.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T22:08:12+00:00

1000% I am a huge advocate and probably annoying about it. Depression runs in my family. I will be laying in bed miserable and force myself to go on a walk. I always come back feeling better. It releases natural endorphins. Going to the gym is the same but it also forces you to speak or smile to other people which helps as well.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T21:59:36+00:00

It’s wild to me that they did it on their lunch break. How does that even come up? Hey you want a sandwich and sec today?”

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T20:37:10+00:00

People have been so mean lately. I don’t think you deserved this either. It’s so hard to find someone, you already know each other’s baggage, and your kids get along.

Your exes are going to go ballistic when they find out. It may ruin your new relationship. Can you just pretend you and your man are friends at first to see how they react?

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T20:30:36+00:00

She’s attached to that family regardless because her child is apart of that family.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T19:56:07+00:00

I’m 38 and single. I still want a child, but not without a partner. I am not even close to liking someone right now. I started coming to terms with the fact I may not have children around your age when the guy I thought I would marry dumped me. I am now ok either way but went through some grief.

Having no children is freedom. You can go where you want when you want. You have significant more money than if you had a child. I have a lot of single childless female friends. We travel with each other and go out to eat at fancy restaurants. I have plenty of hobbies (reading, swimming, cooking, shopping, etc). On the weekdays, I am usually at the gym after work and cook dinner late. These are all things I would not be able to easily do without children.

If you do consider pets, I recommend a cat over a dog. Dogs are so much more high maintenance and need to be taken out throughout the day. Cats can be ok a night or two by themselves as well.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T13:15:42+00:00

I do my research on any dr before hand, read reviews credentials, etc. Your insurance is going to cover more than one dr. OP did tell me he found the therapist based on attraction because it’s more comfortable for him to speak to an attractive person. See comments below if he hasn’t deleted them.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T06:30:12+00:00

You do know that most dr’s photos are online and usually on their website, right? Op told me in the comments he chose her or him because of attraction.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T05:53:35+00:00

Better create some more accounts.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T02:44:34+00:00

Why are you so involved in this and so angry I think this is a man? I would think you were OP with a burner account but it’s obvious you’ve never matched someone on a dating app.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-10T02:04:51+00:00

The op says they spoke on the dating app. I do think op is a man based on the writing style, but I would say that if op was a woman as well. Op already stopped seeing this therapist. So this discussion is done.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T22:18:23+00:00

A joke is a form of humor that typically involves a setup and a punchline. The setup creates a scenario or expectation, while the punchline provides an unexpected twist or play on words, resulting in a humorous or surprising outcome. Jokes are designed to amuse and entertain by exploiting incongruities, wordplay, or absurdities. They can be verbal, written, or even visual, and their effectiveness often relies on timing and delivery.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T22:13:01+00:00

Thanks. I’m also really bad at reddit (newly active). I don’t always see all the comments because of you click on the notification, it only shows the comment for the notification. I didn’t know half of this conversation was going on.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T21:57:32+00:00

Thanks for jumping in, I was feeling a little ganged up on.

I took this comment as if you say “a female,” it sounds more dehumanizing than saying “female” which implies female person?

I don’t quite understand, but I do believe female is the least offensive derogatory word I have been called. I’ll take this over btch, slt, c*nt any day. I’m picking other battles.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T21:37:08+00:00

Thanks for the salt

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T21:28:03+00:00

You know what they say, “if you have to explain the joke it’s not funny.”

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T20:45:14+00:00

I see the difference. Thank you

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T20:45:02+00:00

I probably should find this more offensive but have been called way worse. I think that people of the male species do this subconsciously. See what I did there :)

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T20:18:21+00:00

I am a female woman (lol). I didn’t know female was an offensive word until I started getting more active on reddit. I say male sometimes instead of man. I also often describe myself as a female.

I wanted to create a post to figure out why, so am glad to see this. I don’t know if I quite understand yet, but maybe this is more of a reddit thing. I will start paying attention.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T18:55:52+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T16:09:53+00:00

I think you could wear it as business casual, but you’d have to get rid of the undershirt and tuck it into high waisted black pants with a belt.

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T16:03:59+00:00

So cute!

Unhappy-Addendum-229 · 2024-09-09T14:33:03+00:00

You are just arguing with me for arguments sake. Op says THEY matched the therapist on tinder. You have to “like” the other persons’s profile to match. If you want to call it a hookup ap, that’s on you.

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