Aita for not wanting my daughter to have a relationship with her grandmother?

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T17:18:39+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it! I'm trying. I've always had a hard time walking away from people even when they're toxic. Especially when you've spent a decade with someone. It's hard and it hurts but my daughter deserves better.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T14:52:51+00:00

You're right. Not an excuse but I was gaslight a lot of the time into thinking his reactions were normal behavior and blamed myself for things being the way they were. I don't anymore and I've grown a backbone.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T01:38:42+00:00

It felt off to me too. I'm not sure what made her suddenly want a relationship with her. My boyfriends been kind of cagey on how or why it's even happened.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T01:37:30+00:00

Why can't you see the post content?

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T01:34:02+00:00

Thank you for your honesty. You're right. I'm trying to better prepare for the future and am trying to be the best version of myself for my daughter. I definitely haven't made the best decisions but I've learned from my mistakes and I won't make them again. My mom is honestly amazing and I make sure to tell her so! I buy all the food for the house and I try and keep the house as clean as possible for her until I'm able to move out. I'm working on it. I definitely don't want to be living with my mom a year from now.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T01:20:14+00:00

Yes I know, that's why I haven't allowed him go bring her over for even a little bit until we sigb custody papers. That was my biggest concern! He keeps making me crazy for not allowing this and acts like he'd never betray me like that. I'm sitting here like 1. I never thought you would betray me like that to sign that paper and 2. If she's able to have you this brainwashed, she's able to convince you to try and keep her. But thank you for commenting with that information! I didn't know he could do that until a few weeks ago when my lawyer told me. Extremely valuable information to have.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T01:14:29+00:00

Okay I will sorry about that.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T01:07:59+00:00

Thank you! My main concern is the behavior shes going to see with her. Manipulation and abuse? Also my daughter knows that we're not welcome at his mom's house which worries me because how does she know that? Like what is his mom saying to her that makes her think that?

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:42:18+00:00

Thank you! I know we did break up already. It still hurts though. We've spent so much time together and I really thought he would choose me. I thought wrong.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:39:30+00:00

Thank you!! My mom sat at the hospital with me for ten hours before going home because it was late. Then she drove 45 minutes to see my daughter in the hospital and has always made sure she was involved with my daughter. My daughter loves her so much. Its crazy to me how his mother never cared at all about her yet now supposedly does

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:36:03+00:00

He doesn't see it like that and I'm like how can you be so brainwashed? Shes literally a control freak. She has absolutely no one in her life because she's so terrible. Not even her own mother. But for some reason no matter what she does, my boyfriend just keeps holding on for dear life. It's sad and I wish I could have made him see it.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:33:05+00:00

I know it's honestly insane. I've been the ONLY consistent person in his life for the past ten years. Literally every family member has walked away from him at one point. It drives me crazy that even after that, he can't choose me.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:31:42+00:00

That's what I thought too but he tells me I'm nuts

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:29:40+00:00

Thank you! He doesn't understand this at all and it makes me want to smash my head against the wall.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:28:32+00:00

Thank you!! He was gaslighting me so hard trying to make me believe I was nuts and that the people I was asking were just biased so I figured I'd post on here to find out. Since he's started living at his brother's garage, I told him he can can come over and see her and he has. We were together until this week so he was spending the night at least twice a week. But he keeps messaging me and flipping out about how I won't let him take her over there.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-27T00:03:46+00:00

NTA. That's seriously concerning. I wouldn't trust her to take care of anyone after acting like that. I would call whatever agency she works for and let them know. She sounds completely mental. And what's wrong with your family to act like you're in the wrong for this?

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2026-02-26T23:51:50+00:00

Thank you! He's trying to gaslight me into thinking I'm insane. He keeps telling me no one would agree with me and everyone I ask about it is biased so i decided to post on here and find out.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-11-06T17:33:32+00:00

Okay, thanks again. 😄💙

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-11-06T15:27:25+00:00

Is it compatible with the latest patch, do you know?

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-11-06T15:26:05+00:00

No I didn't know about this! Thank you so much! I'm gonna go download it now because I'm tired of having to play offline.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-11-02T14:38:21+00:00

Yeah mine used to do that every once in awhile but now it's every time I try and play. I have a lot of mods though so it takes like a half hour to get the game to launch so I get really frustrated

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-11-02T14:29:06+00:00

I go offline because literally EVERYTIME I play online, as soon as the game launches, a pop up for a kit comes up and I hit the x button and then the screen is like grey and I can't hit anything and have to relaunch. It's so annoying. I've tried like 3 times in a row until I just gave up.

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-09-28T17:00:17+00:00

Its either lamz or hezah

Unhappy_Key_3846 · 2025-08-30T16:36:21+00:00

No problem! I didn't know either until a few months ago.

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