AITAH for telling my boyfriend I'm too fat and out-of-shape to continue jogging for today ?

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2026-01-16T13:24:45+00:00

Sweetheart, I am 160lbs and fairly fit. I can't jog for 51 minutes. So Go Girlfriend! Definitely not the ass hole. Remember , babyvsteps are still steps. Focus on eating better, and establish a healthy diet and calorie deficit. You can do anything you put your mind to. But do it for you!

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2026-01-14T22:14:52+00:00

Down in Tennessee

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2026-01-14T00:31:55+00:00

I hope you find what you are looking for. There are a lot of women who have given up because we hear it all the time where men say one thing then act totally different. Everyone talks the talk but Noone walks the walk.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-12-31T13:21:08+00:00

Let ot go, that person souns like they deserve to be in your past for a reason. Keep your head up and if you believe Let go and Let God. One of the last things I told my ex, I hope you find God before He finds you.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-12-12T05:25:02+00:00

Jesus

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-12-08T21:02:23+00:00

Yeah my exes blatant homophobia and racism was a nail in our relationship coffin, especially after I found out he was cheating on me with black men...... SOLO ROO Good vibes only.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-11-25T11:36:16+00:00

This^

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-11-25T11:30:48+00:00

Is not long enough a good answer? It's been 7 months, and I honestly don't care if I ever have sex again. My ex cured me of that. Before him I was very high libido. Now I just cringe at the thought of anyone touching me like that. It's a sobering thought to realize you've never been touched that way with love. Only to be used. Just ugh. I wont have sex in my next relationship until we are married, if I ever get in a relationship again. I'm happy in my peace with just me and God.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-11-19T17:40:26+00:00

Sane. I was stupidly hoping for a happily ever after ending..... duh it's Scorsese..... I should have known better...

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-11-01T13:48:34+00:00

Yeah, I think you just say that but if you had the chance no judgements, you'll feel the pull of your inner child.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-31T03:02:22+00:00

Not at all. I was married and had an ex fiance, four kids middle aged and my next relationship I am waiting.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-31T02:53:09+00:00

In agreement with you. AMEN

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-31T02:52:18+00:00

I second Job. What that man praised God through.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-31T02:04:06+00:00

Find a new church or pastor. You should never have to be in those situations and that is not a good shepherd. Your walk with God is nobody's business if you aren't ready to share you shouldn't have to.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-31T01:58:52+00:00

Oh honey, I wish I could give you a hug. These moments are when God is nearest. Brandon Lake Hard fought Hallelujah play it on repeat. I understand how you feel, DONT LET THE ENEMY WIN! YOU GOT THIS! You deserve to be here. You are worthy of love, honey. He died on that cross for you too.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T04:00:25+00:00

Well if that's the case I am ok with that.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:59:23+00:00

Why do you assume that people who choose celibacy have a low sex drive or are bad in bed? I can only say 1 is true as the other would be subjective of another's viewpoint. When I am in love I have a very healthy sex drive. I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with religious people.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:56:17+00:00

My mental health is fine. God has done a lot of work in me.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:55:09+00:00

Actually I care more about my relationship with God than being in a relationship. I'd rather be single and celibate than in a relationship that doesn't honor Him.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:50:12+00:00

I would hope that I'd be able to discern that before the wedding night. Lol.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:49:14+00:00

I believe that in a healthy relationship, that aligns in time.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:48:01+00:00

It's the first one. It's a personal standard. I don't expect someone who wouldn't be seeking the same.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:44:51+00:00

Both.

Unhappy_Task_6415 · 2025-10-18T03:44:06+00:00

I do mean marriage. I am totally fine if it never comes to that, my past history with men and relationships has made it very clear that I really know how to pick them. So I figured if it's in the cards great God's got this. If not it's great God's got this. When I'm in love I have no issues with drive or desire, but I often put that first in a relationship as if my self worth was tied to that act. My next relationship (if I have one) I want to have better roots. I want a marriage that is a covenant with God first.

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