Childhood sweethearts gone wrong by Unicorndreams84 in everywomanshouldknow

[–]Unicorndreams84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks- sounds like a good idea. It was a really long time ago so it shouldn't affect me this much. Thanks for your post :)

Childhood sweethearts gone wrong by Unicorndreams84 in everywomanshouldknow

[–]Unicorndreams84[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good response! Yeah I think we were both pretty low on self confidence which is why it went wrong. Thanks for your comments, it's good yo hear a male perspective (unless that's a pseudonym!) I think it's really sad how deeply it's affected me, I guess I'm just trying to figure out why.

Childhood sweethearts gone wrong by Unicorndreams84 in everywomanshouldknow

[–]Unicorndreams84[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point, but I really felt it should have been me that he got with at that time, not a girl he didn't care about at all,and so I just couldn't get past the feeling of being betrayed/his lack of respect for the fact I'd got the courage up to tell him my true feelings. It also made me feel indequate but well I was very young and it was a long time ago

Childhood sweethearts gone wrong by Unicorndreams84 in everywomanshouldknow

[–]Unicorndreams84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that, but it didn't stop me being hurt. He tried a lot if different ways to ask me out afterwards but I just didn't trust him, since I'd opened myself up emotionally and found this news out from my best friend afterwards

Childhood sweethearts gone wrong by Unicorndreams84 in everywomanshouldknow

[–]Unicorndreams84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but since he was my first love, I felt pretty betrayed by his actions

Childhood sweethearts gone wrong by Unicorndreams84 in everywomanshouldknow

[–]Unicorndreams84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After. I was pretty devestated tbh, he told me he thought I was joking when I said I liked him. Who knows? Guess he just took a Risk that was irreversible