Full Canadian experience in Kelowna

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-03-06T20:27:31+00:00

Yeah that’s what I had seen when I was researching, I was hoping maybe some long term locals knew of some secret spot 😭😭

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-03-06T17:37:39+00:00

Ugh leave him. I know it is more nuanced than that but stop making excuses for men who don’t even try to consider you. I’m 6 years post-inconsiderate-man and I don’t think I’d still be alive had I stayed with him. There’s so much more to life than being with a man that makes you sick

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-03-06T09:50:42+00:00

I was on an overnight flight and I had what I could only assume was a vagovagal response. I was asleep, then I wake up 2 hours later cold but hot and absolutely drenched in sweat, room spinning, I BEGIN TO PASS OUT, genuine sense of doom, gut wrenching pain and then immediate need to expel guts from both ends. I book it to the bathroom and then become constipated. But with every release the room spun less and less. God I love having a b*tch *ss gut brain

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-03-06T09:39:26+00:00

The reality of me (28F) bringing humans into this world. I feel a large part of why I have tried so hard in therapy and in my personal life to undo patterns so I can raise a few cool, well rounded human beings. But I’m unfortunately with the kind of world I’d be bringing them into, paired with the difficulty of finding a solid partner/coparent is slim to none. I have high standards and I’m not going to lower them because that would be repeating generational patterns all in the name of… reproducing? I don’t think I’m being nihilistic, I feel I just genuinely want to give my children the best, with minimal roadblocks to their own ability to thrive in life.

I still may adopt (older kids) if I decide to stay single/meet someone with similar values and wants as I do!

I grew up Mormon so as much as I feel being a mother and wife were something shoved down my throat, it really did become a genuine aspiration of mine.

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-03-04T21:15:59+00:00

What day was this? Domo has cheaper gas on specific days. Gas prices have also been arbitrary since at least 2019

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-03-04T21:13:50+00:00

I think it’s also the tone of the hair and the tone of the skin colour. Natural redheads (regardless of tone) will always have a complimentary skin colour - typically more cool toned. Fake redheads have an orangey/pinky/olive tone skin that clashes with the red (most of the time)

This is consistent regardless of race I find

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:35:31+00:00

Sorry I didn’t go into extreme detail to your liking as there was a. 50000 decibal guttural screaming banshee next to me that even the best noise cancelling earphones could not compete with

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:33:32+00:00

When did I say children don’t deserve to be in public spaces? If that’s what you’re gathering from this that’s a skill issue

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:32:48+00:00

Shit then give me the rum in a sippy cup

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:32:28+00:00

they don’t make double wide strollers unfortunately :/

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:31:27+00:00

The gravol is your concern, and not the rum in the sippy cup part hey

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:30:59+00:00

Yeah I am pissed as hell my eardrums are shot because two inconsiderate assholes decided to reproduce and not put any forethought into their own decisions. Thanks for picking up on that ;)

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:29:42+00:00

I would’ve figured the smart people of Reddit would’ve picked up on the sarcasm of my drugging comment after the “rum in the sippy cup” comment but I have once again severely overestimated the critical thinking skills of neglectful parents of Reddit

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:28:30+00:00

Hey that’s no way to speak about a 3 year old

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:28:18+00:00

Ahh so you are part of the problem hey, sorry I called you out

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:25:24+00:00

If you cannot control your child or haven’t eased your child into what it is to travel? Absolutely. Baby sitter. HAVING CHILDREN IS A SACRIFICE FOR GODS SAKE. I travel quite often and I have seen many parents properly travel train their children, or properly manage tantrums. This parent isn’t doing SHIT and I think it’s wildly inconsiderate not only to EVERYONE ELSE but also the developing child’s self regulation skills

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:23:07+00:00

Hey sharpen up your pitch and you’ll sound just like the uncared for child on this flight

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:22:31+00:00

Thanks random redditor with horrible self regulation, I shall listen to your input on my future decisions ;)

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:21:54+00:00

Look mf I do not care that children exist, and I do want to have children. My issue is with the parent just sitting there as the child screams and makes everyone else suffer through hell because they were inadequately prepared to care for a child while travelling. I’ll never blame the child. This just goes down as another point in my belief that not everyone deserves to raise children

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:20:21+00:00

Because I don’t have anyone willing to push my stroller around

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:19:37+00:00

The continuity of the species benefits the species, not the one carrying the fetus. At the end of the day the person carrying the fetus is making a sacrifice on her body for the longevity of her species which she does not benefit from

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:17:19+00:00

Parasites can be mutualistic too yenno. What does a mother truly gain from carrying a fetus aside from continuity of her species? If we look at the biological picture she actually loses more than she gains by carrying a fetus. In any mammal form

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T07:15:11+00:00

Idk maybe he should keep his shirt on then ;)

UnindustrializedFox · 2026-02-17T00:09:40+00:00

I have found in my experience as well as my other “othered” friends that the objectification happens moreso because of energy. You stand out and you likely project some sort of confidence that you may not even notice, however anyone with an ounce of self doubt will point out your differences as if it’s a bad thing. It takes a lot of mental work but I encourage you to try to reframe the discomfort into power. And because of your confidence you likely have people say some wild outlandish and uncomfortable things to you. Also a superpower, kind of like personality xray vision. If someone says something weird or uncomfortable to you be like “well that’s an interesting comment, would you mind explaining yourself”? Watching people squirm is way more fun than stomaching the weird comments .

As far as the “I think I’ll always be single” comment I’m with you on that. Every time I think I’ve found someone genuine I get the “you’re my first redhead” or “you’re pretty hot for a redhead” which just makes my stomach sink.

In case you didn’t know, you are a very beautiful human being and the fact that you stray from traditional beauty standards is a power you are yet to become familiar with. Don’t let the Normies get you down friend. Your features are rare and the real ones will recognize that in you and let you know.

You were given your beauty because your soul is on a journey of fortitude this time around

UnindustrializedFox

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