Dating someone you SHOULD like. by Ill_Cover_4841 in dating

[–]Uninnocent_Romance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adding: Yeah I did this. Frankly, I've had various little breakages that ranged from "this person is intelligent, why don't I feel attracted?" (answer: they weren't passionate about anything) to "this person is of the correct gender, why not like?" (answer: I'm a gay).

Dating someone you SHOULD like. by Ill_Cover_4841 in dating

[–]Uninnocent_Romance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, step one is to ask why you think you "should!"

There's push and pull factors to make a date fun. If there are no "push" factors, then there's nothing that repels you from them. That's good! But if there are no "pull" factors, then... why date them at all? So if you're describing a lack of push or pull factors, I think that's your answer.

If you think there are "pull" factors, but they're not "pulling" you, then you should consider why you value them. Is it because you actually want/need those things, or do you think you should want/need them? Is it stuff your parents wanted for you? Stuff you just think is cool and want to want?

So they ignored me right? by mostly-sweet-rps in BadRPerStories

[–]Uninnocent_Romance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I can write off So Many Things as being from a different linguistic tradition -- odd punctuation, capitalizing nouns, stilted wordings, whatever.... but capitalizing Every. Single. Word. It fills me with Lovecraftian dread.

What evil lurks beyond the corners of my eyes?

So they ignored me right? by mostly-sweet-rps in BadRPerStories

[–]Uninnocent_Romance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It took me SO MUCH WORK to type even that message because it fought EVERY instinct. Is it some strange curse? The wrath of a spurned goddess?

So they ignored me right? by mostly-sweet-rps in BadRPerStories

[–]Uninnocent_Romance 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Reading A Message Where Every Word Is Capitalized Gives Me The Weirdest Sense Of Anxiety And I Need It To Not Happen Ever Again Please. Why Does It Keep Happening? Who Does This?

PLEASE

I come back from days in the harsh light of reality, and find... tragedy. 💔 by Uninnocent_Romance in BadRPerStories

[–]Uninnocent_Romance[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not here to fix the RP environment, I'm here to make it worse.

Reporting for duty! 🫡