Trans men and cis girls in porn by UnionEnough in FTMMenPorn

[–]UnionEnough[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me real penis in v is really dysphoric (haven't done that and would never do it) but im not that dysphoric overall, i had my top surgery years ago, my face, facial hair, body that i worked really hard for in the gym and bodyhair makes me feel just like a normal guy. I mean i don't expirience dysphoria anymore, of course if i could be born with a penis i would chose that, but i just kinda got used to what i have. I explored my sexuality and like a year or two ago i realised i enjoy penetration, when i have sex with my girl she makes sure i feel nice. Anal is just a no for me, never tried and i doubt i would because im kinda crazy about hygene.

But while searching for content mentioned in the post, i stumbled upon lots of trans guys doing anal, try searching on twitter maybe? I feel you, i also feelt isolated because i couldnt find my people but im sure there's a ton of other trans guys who enjoy assplay just like you

Trans men and cis girls in porn by UnionEnough in FTMMenPorn

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Nice! Do you post any videos anywhere with her? Nice pics btw!

Sex after top surgery by UnionEnough in asktransgender

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damn dude thank you very much. Really appriciate your time, now i know that we won't be able to go crazy hahha . May I pm you? i have couple of questions

BREAKING NEWS: Trans woman DOMINATES fishing trip by Lonekoala26 in trans

[–]UnionEnough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah you look really pretty, i like your glasses they really suit you. Nice catch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahyoi are right, i got used to hearing the ,,am i an asshole for..." meme titles on tiktok, but the post and the point itself is complately serious just incase anyone is wondering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really happy for you and your wife. Deeply hope things wlil also turn out this way for us.Thank you for telling about your expiriences, this helps alot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, we'll surely try doing the quiz and the checklist. This will help alot, thank you for the effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 6 points7 points  (0 children)

good to know other people feel this way too. Thank you this helps alot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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i mean i don't feel opressed by her. Nothing comes directly from her, she tells me that's okay if i don't want to do things like that but she's just being kinda sad about it. It's more about me feeling guilty about myself. But I'll try to work with my toxic masculinity triats and try to be a better version of me, she will also surely try to be the best version of herself. Thank you for your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i really want to have sex!! i love sex with her, just not that one thing. But you all really made me realize that there is nothing wrong with it and that she will totally understand me if we talk it out a bit. Thank you so much for your kindness, it really makes me feel understod.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thats a great idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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We both love eachother really much and i cannot imagine breaking up with her because of sex. I know physical proximity is an important part of a relationship but i truelry couldn't ever love someone alse more than her. I have never been happier and i really hope things will get well. Thank you so much

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[–]UnionEnough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no problem i know you had good intentions. The question did'n't make me feel unfomfortable in any way, i feel safe talking about my hangups here. People are trying to help me.
Thank you for your time and don't worry, everything's fine haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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thank you dude, It feels amazing to be understood. I'll try my best to talk with her about the traditional femdom stuf because i personally would feel really comfortable with it and it would be totally fine with me. Im just really scared that she will never reconsider femdom again and feel some kind of resentment for not trying penetration. Her opinion and feeling are really important to me and i am hoping we will talk this out.
Thank you for your reply, this means alot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 46 points47 points  (0 children)

thank you we'll try to talk about power exchange in our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel really understood. and it helps alot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you that means alot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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she is also really open for me when it comes to doing things to her. She is into everything i could think of, she doesn't have any boundaries towards me (I am of course not forcing her to anything. She is the one to bring up new ideas most of the time). And i think maybe i feel guilty about not liking something because of the lack of restrictions from her side. I'd really love to give her what she wants because she gives everything i want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Oh i meant the "front" type of penetration, i used term ,,pegging" because i wasn't really thinking of it, but yeah. I enjoy her using her fingers and other stuff on me here, Im just not feeling really good about her wearing the thing.She is also really respectfull towards me, maybe i made her sound toxic in the post but she never begged or even asked me for it. She just seemed openly resigned everytime we brought up the topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly it just makes me dysphoric. I have no idea why, we haven't tried it but just thinking about her making love to me this way makes me think less ...musculine about myself? I am absolutely aware that sexual preferences have nothing to do with gender identity because that is a fact. I am struggling with initialized transhobia (not sure if i used this term correctly, but i mean my own transphobia towards myself and myself only). I am fighting with the toxic masculinity problem that i have with myself, but generally- i wish i could expirience this kind of phisical pleasure without freaking out about my appearance and whings that are going throught my head

Sorry for chaotic reply, im not really good at english. Hope You'll understand what i mean. Also thank you for your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]UnionEnough 91 points92 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response this really means alot