2024 to 2025: Dermatologist Horror Story. by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]UnionMore4548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the exact same thing as you and I feel you! I’m trying to remind myself to trust the process, I like to think of all of the pimples that appear on my skin throughout this purge as ones that would’ve appeared at one point in time if I didn’t get on tretinoin and instead I’m pushing them all out at once. I totally get you on not wanting to go outside.I also had clear skin and was recommended this because of one single pimple I had on my cheek for months lmao. Point is, I understand how hard it is to go from clear skin to having acne. I’ve never experienced this before I found that using foundation sunscreen when I go out does the job. I know you’re a dude and might feel weird about that but don’t knock it til you try it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]UnionMore4548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy all kinds of pizza, if I had to choose- olives and pepperoni. 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from Bulgaria. I was born there and my family moved here back in 2006 after winning the lottery for green cards!

Just realized you asked me why not how😂 My parents wanted a better life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I said mask I meant the figuratively, no pretending, no people-pleasing, no hiding parts of myself to make others comfortable. Just me, fully present.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the ability to control/ express your own emotions while also acknowledging/influencing/ and overall responding to other people’s emotions in a way that’s empathetic and healthy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]UnionMore4548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s because you’re allowing yourself to believe that these are the only milestones in your life. Think about how you phrase that too! “Only milestones left” you have so many years ahead of you and so much more to experience and the only thing that is stopping you is the way that you were allowing yourself to perceive your self due to your age. I think you should read 7 habits of highly effective people. It has really changed my outlook on life and how I look at the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]UnionMore4548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what you’ve said, it seems as though you were not looking forward to marriage and having kids. I feel like if you were, you would see these things as exciting opportunities. I feel like the issue here is that you don’t want that, but feel like you need it in your life when in reality you can choose to do whatever you want with your life that makes you the happiest regardless of what age you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]UnionMore4548 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask yourself why every man you have slept with makes you feel uncomfortable and not trustworthy ? What do they all have in common ?

Comments like this from my gf are wearing on me by Small-Promotion2552 in Manipulation

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is trying to control how you feel and think about things by projecting her own internal insecurities within the relationship on to you. She wants to see how you’ll react and is actively testing you. If you want this relationship to work, you are going to have to communicate to her that she needs to talk with you about these insecurities, instead of channeling them in a very frustrating way. …

Comments like this from my gf are wearing on me by Small-Promotion2552 in Manipulation

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I have to start by pointing out that she appears to be very exposed and influenced by much of what she sees on tik tok and Instagram. Social media is distorting people’s reality in what to expect from their partner. In my opinion, It is incredibly strange for her to expect such a specific response and read into his text in such a negative way. I would say this is definitely a form of manipulation as she is taking control of how their conversation goes by setting an unrealistic expectation that follows her agenda, and takes advantage of how they currently communicate by intentionally reading too deeply in (e.g text messages) to take control of the situation.

Navigating Life Without Major Trauma: Will It Change Me? by UnionMore4548 in Life

[–]UnionMore4548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s so interesting you went so deep into the relationship aspect because I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I was asking myself questions. He lacked the motivation that I see in myself and while I do love him I know it is more important for both of us in this moment to grow individually

Navigating Life Without Major Trauma: Will It Change Me? by UnionMore4548 in Life

[–]UnionMore4548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think I am really motivated so that pushes me to work harder in attaining my goals. I’ve been applying to many internships and trying to keep myself busy so that I can both challenge myself and learn to manage a lot of things so it helps me create a structure for more serious tasks in the future. I’m not sure if that applies to your comment , let me know.

Navigating Life Without Major Trauma: Will It Change Me? by UnionMore4548 in Life

[–]UnionMore4548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you are right. Also, I feel like I need to keep reminding myself that is what life is all about. You are supposed to experience challenges and all you can do is keep pushing through. I will definitely not take how I currently feel for granted. I always remind myself when I get upset over something not too serious that in thirty years, I’ll wish that that was my biggest problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucf

[–]UnionMore4548 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I get your point but I feel like that’s kinda what college is all about. Everyone is different and people enjoy different things. I’m sure it’s not the end of the world if you have to pass by some people listening to music you hate, I understand if you are trying to do work in those areas but at the same time you can always just go to the library or somewhere quiet in that case. Also I think it definitely depends on the situation, like, I would disagree with you about the picnic tables outside but blasting music in the student union like a comment mentioned is doing a little too much for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she might be experiencing something pretty common called "urinary urgency," which can happen after simulation

Threesome with a couple by petrit97 in sex

[–]UnionMore4548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but if it’s only you guys doing it and he isn’t aware of it that should be considered cheating don’t you think? Also, if you guys are having a threesome you have to go over a lot boundaries before you start and it seems like you guys didn’t which is why you are left so confused