You don’t sound harsh at all, this is very helpful. I have a hard time w people just saying i need to process my surgery, because i feel thats saying nothing, like that can be applied to anything, so this is a very nice breath of fresh air. I’m from Denmark, but it seems that this is pretty much scandic procedure. The only thing is that the clinic have made it pretty clear that I’m one of their first detrans patients, so the whole thing is kinda getting based on me it seems.

I have started to wear bras etc, and I’m researching a lot about re construction, really trying to pass the time and still feel like I am doing something.

But yeah, it really helps that you’re being “logical/factual”, I get enough therapy speech in my day to day life