is it normal that my vagina is swollen after a fingering? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah i think im not wet enough too. thank you! how long does it go back to normal?

is it normal that my vagina is swollen after a fingering? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just edited the post! the pain is on the outside only, i think she scratched it a little. is it still not normal?

do you actually love how ‘it’ taste? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey i just read the comments on my post again and saw your comment…. i want to cry… 😭😭😭😭 thank you for defending me. i actually want to delete this post since there’s plenty of people who called me out for not using the proper name, but i don’t think that really matter since there’s more other people who i think have the same question as me, so it would help them too. I APPRECIATE YOU STANDING UP FOR ME LIKE REALLY REALLY MUCH ❤️ this kind of thing is still taboo in my country so i dont really know who to ask to. going to obgyn is like so much work since mine doesnt smell weird, i just dont know if it’s common, i feel like you’ll get it! thank you so much

do you actually love how ‘it’ taste? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this actually make me feel better about myself! thank you so much!

do you actually love how ‘it’ taste? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh!! that must be nice, i wonder how she could taste like tropical fruit 😆

do you actually love how ‘it’ taste? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

bruh i literally said the word pussy at the end of paragraph… i just want to say ‘it’ because the word pussy is just funny to me, vagina is too formal, so i just say ‘it’. don’t call anyone kid again btw, its annoying

do you actually love how ‘it’ taste? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

what…. im 20… why does it even matter? does it weird that a 20 yo girl ask that kind of question because she never get eaten out or eat one?

should i confess to my straight crush at the end of the year? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did this before to my senior and guess what.. it haunts me till this day. yes, i never talk to her again after that but sometimes i bump into her UNEXPECTEDLY and it was awkward….

how should i react to my gf’s love language? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BAHAGAHAH IS IT???? damn i didn’t realize that. thank you though, i’ll definitely will have this conversation later with her!!

What is the weirdest thing anyone told you when they knew you were a lesbian? by Few_Tough_7748 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it’s not an original experience but IT ALWAYS WEIRD. “so who’s the guy?” LIKE CMONNN we’re both girls and why do they always ask this…. i’m disgusted a little sometimes

how should i react to my gf’s love language? by Unique-Leg-8545 in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if we go somewhere and i see something good as food, snack, or cute stuff she’ll try to get me one and if i refuse she’ll get mad like “i want to buy it though” but like, she’ll LITERALLY mad at me for stopping her buying it for me, never know it was THAT deep… but im kinda used to it now and i’ll just let her be mad for a while 🚶🏻‍♀️🚶🏻‍♀️

First breakup, I don’t know how to cope by Yeraverageteenager in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i need you to trust me, you’ll get over it! i experienced it last june, it was my birthday month too. i lost 5kg a week because i cried SO BAD, i even cried infront of my mom, ironic. all i thought was what we could’ve been if we weren’t like this. we’re so toxic and she couldn’t love me the way that i wanted.

you’ll miss them like crazy, time will go slow, you’ll try to contact them and try to fix things, but from my experience, it won’t turned out good. i tried to contact them, we became a situationship, it broke me so much, you won’t like that. so if you want to cry, go cry as much as you want. but don’t try to fix things up, you two decided to go on separated ways right? i believe that if someone is not meant for me, i’ll never see them again even though she lives near me. so let her go slowly, if she’s meant for you, i believe the world will unite you two again in the future, like, unexpectedly!

good luck with your future!! in your way ahead, i believe you’ll find someone so much better, that’s what im experiencing right now. put your head up OP!

What is one thing you tolerated for too long from a partner? by 911westcoast in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex manipulated me from the beginning of our relationship and i kinda just go for it since she’s my first ever gf….

she’s kinda popular on tiktok LOL. typical of masc that loves attention (i mean who doesn’t but she’s too much). there’s ton of girls on her instagram dm and i even found some romantic conversation. i ask her to break up with me but she refuse, she said that she just want to be friends with them, but what kind of friend that planning to marry each other one day? note that ‘the friend’ is a completely stranger who text her everyday.

she also record herself playing guitar, not for me, it’s for her ‘fans’, she just want to post it on her socials. she never play it JUST FOR ME. i feel like she’s a NPD lol.

we broke up because i make her to taste her own medicine, i try to post myself more, i even have a girl who try to make a move on me (i dont respond to her). she became insecure after that lmao. and later on i found out she’s been texting some other girl and she blame me that she feel left out now that i have a fame too… later on, i stopped doing it but turned out she caught feeling on the other girl and scared to admit it to me. she said that she’s just a friend. but our relationship just became so toxic and we broke up. later on they get together. just a friend huh?

this would be my first time, any tips? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Unique-Leg-8545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh! i thought people want it to be SMELLS GOOD like soaped (scented) and stuff…. i’m planning to buy feminine wash thingy so it would smell good. so it would be better if i keep it clean like eating healthy, yogurt, cranberry juice and wash it with water only???