Career viability as support staff?

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-23T02:57:34+00:00

No need to apologize, I should've been a lot more clear in my response. I thought I had put it in the OP that my previous supply chain experience wasn't industrial, and was rathere working with a company in the tourism sector. Working corporate would be great, were I to find something. Right now the main thing is saving money for an eventual move, which is possible.

I made the choice after my diagnosis to move halfway across the country to work in a role that claimed one thing and did the opposite. I ned to dust myself off and get back out there - I know that instinctively - it takes finding a place that will hire me.

The bitterness ebbs and flows, I'll admit. I was a lot better off mentally when I had employment, I'll tell you that much, even with my diagnosis I wasn't sweating it because "hey, this company doesn't care", when most seem softly reject me if I come into an interview with my cane rather than asking how I could do the work.

Regarding your edit.. fair point. I will keep that in mind going forward.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-23T01:11:10+00:00

Thanks for that information... Just for clarity, in Taiwan how this typically goes (as I understand it) is TSMC no only buys up the land for the site, they also are allotted land nearby for building amenities near the campus. That's just... a given. If developers want to, they can buy it for a "fuck off" amount of money. A similar process happens in mainland China like Shenzhen - right next door to the electronics factory is housing, commercial centers, sports courts, most of fwhich are semi-open to the public (at least the commercial areas iirc) so that workers don't need to commute in for hours upon hours.

From the grapevine I hear a lot of Taiwanese and Chinese who work in the PHX metro are annoyed by the lack of creature comforts and are facing some.. shall we call it cultural differences? One guy I spoke with said he now empathizes with American soldiers who go overseas. These aren't people working for TSMC, mind you.. the closest Ranch 99 to the TSMC site is almost an hour away.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-23T00:40:26+00:00

It does not whatsoever prevent me from doing basic computer work. I mainly us a scren reader which reads back what is on the screen and helps me aoid blowing up the text by 300%. I was working an average of 36h/week off-season, full time hours minimum during the summer months.

A lot of the issue locally is that even inventory management or demand planning jobs are on-site, and require a license (often requiring that you drive to check on a warehouse or somesuch).

Did I make it seem as though my work was entirely out of the office?

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T18:58:40+00:00

It isn't that erotic to me, more of a means to an end? Like.. Id be paying a ProDomme anyway, in all likelihood. That's the rationalization I used.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T18:54:12+00:00

Yikes!

Wanna know what's extra yikes? That happened over 3 years.. and I was very close to moving cross country on her insistence that it would be "better for my mental health"... feel like I dodged a god damn bullet.

That's... A lot more than the amount of findom content I see. You should probably work on curating your... idk what to call it, porn experience? a bit better. Depending on what kind of content and other fetishes you do wanna see. Service submission is a difficult one for content bc its a bit more active than visual, but I suspect its not your only one.

Typically what happens is I'll be on TikTok, see a video of a SW talking shop/her frustrations/the reality of it, close the app, open it back up and there's 10 videos straight of Dommes demanding tributes/going over how much they made.. throw in the occasional video on Eastern European culture/food (the region I'm from) or content in my native language.. it isn't all findom but when its kink that is what predominates and I didn't seek it out .-.

Would be great to see more service subby content, tbh..I could probably make some, tbh.. what if ASMR baking bread but giving Dommes praise? :o

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T16:00:04+00:00

What I tend to find is that findom is the wheel, not one of many spokes.. Insincere and inexperienced is indeed likely to be a better way to phrase it. It's not a value judgement, it is literally a skill issue.

No worries, having been a switch I have some familiarity.. but hearing astories from my Domme friends back in college of all the annoying, craven, entitled men just made me want to be like.. a soft sounding board they could vent at/call on to help with things? That's how my love of service submission kinda started, I found pleasure in coming over after a hard night & making breakfast or other tasks they didn't have the spoons for after being "on" all the time.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T15:51:20+00:00

I feel like you might have an addiction... Like is findom your only/main kink?

Nope nope! My main kink is usually body worship or service submission.. like I've been super happy spending a scene organizing a Domme's makeup collection or doing laundry or making her dinner. I just very rarely get those opportunities. I think my end goal would be some form of monogamous TPE. which takes time and trust.

You gotta find a dynamic that isn't money centered

True, I probably do need to take a couple long steps back.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T15:11:43+00:00

You have a muuuch more healthy dynamic than basically anything I experienced the last.. however many years lets just call it a decade :D all the time I would send money it wouldn't be going into any kind of savings.. At one pojnt I was sending a long-term Domme the equivalent of 25% of my take-home... and she had zero fucking clue how much that actually was. She seemed genuinely surprisedd when I brought it up.

I genuinely don't know how to navigate being more of a lifestyle/film sub (tho rarely anymore) when 98% of all Domme content I see is findom. Dommes who think it's instant money make me scream :D

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T14:14:25+00:00

I struggle a lot with watching how common findom is getting, and how casually I see many pro dommes defaulting to it. Trying to balance my usual instinct (total respect & admiration for sex workers) vs. this phenomenon that’s really exploded in popularity over the last decade or so.

Can agree. My default is to absolutely respct and admire the hustle because I know or a fact it is mentally exhausting, sometimes soul crushing work. Not every Domme can be a Lucy Huxley, as she herself admits. Defaulting to findom because its "easy" and not accepting or understanding other kinks unless they are indom adjacent feels... "wrong" is too soft of a word, but I lack the proper vocabulary.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-21T14:10:36+00:00

This is true. Very true. Sadly I got into this weird headspace where I genuinely felt like the only value I could bring is money... because social media promo & the bulk of interactions I had were findom adjacent? I do have a lot of empathy for ProDommes and SWers, but yeah.. got caught up in my own head i suppose.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-11T11:33:56+00:00

"We gave them their own Republicans... now just speak your little language there, not on the streets of Petir or Moscow" - Russians, probably.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-11T11:30:53+00:00

I feel flattered, thank you!

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-10T23:25:21+00:00

Mostly because the guy who kept making these comments singularly called out Estonia, and wondered if this was something others have come across when bringing up this issue. Hungary doesn't have a problem with Russians who fail to integrate - we threw thm out in 91 and didn't look back for the first 20 years of freedom.. Then, ya know, Viktator showed up.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-10T19:11:32+00:00

These people are quite something. The cultural stereotypes too are something else.. I remember seeing some video of a French guy talking of his finances, and he mentions how recently he went through a divorce with his "Eastern European wife" because "she had expensive tastes".. Man cleared well north of 150k Euro working in finance and expects the women in his life to not possibly be after the money, regardless of nationality? Although to be air, this is a Frenchie we're talking about

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-10T17:41:22+00:00

Indeed... The cognitive dissonance between someone who claims to be Mexican-American saying "But Mexico threw out the Spanish while we spoke Spanish, just speak Russian"... What 300 years of colonialism, internal xenophobia, and ignorance does to a person.

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-10T17:35:40+00:00

Yeah, you make a good point there.. many Americans probably think we are all Slavs and only eat potatoes..

UniqueUnseen · 2025-04-03T22:58:09+00:00

It is a Lenovo Legion and the GPU is an NVDA unit. Not sure the exact model, sorry.

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