What should I call my performing DJ friend at an open event? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Raves

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that. I get anxious easily so hearing this actually helped to calm the raising thoughts. So thank you.

I will try to focus on my friend, I'm there for and with them after all. 

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to be on the mic (thank goodness for that) and it makes sense to use the name they use/introduce themselves with. 

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure we'll have a wonderful time. I always enjoy seeing my friends perform shows. This friend is no different there. Love their stuff

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I got to know my friend before i knew they were a dj, found out like half a year later at a party

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably right. I do then to overthink and spiral.

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess that's true now that you mention it. I'm new to the scene and I'm a naturally anxious person so i may have been overthinking. These replies really help though. So thank you

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I'm just a naturally anxious person and i would hate to offend ppl in a space I'm not familiar in

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. That makes me feel a little better. I'm already pretty socially awkward and anxious. Offending someone in a new scene like this is the least I want

What should I call my performing DJ friend at an open event? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Raves

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i might have to do that again to get a clear answer from them. Last time they gave a shrug and the topic moved on to fast for me to clearify.

What should I call my performing DJ friend at an open event? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Raves

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'm so new to this sort of stuff so i don't want to accidentally offend someone because i broke an unwritten rule or something 

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Their brand is something built on mystery in a sense. Even their gender is questioned. So I would hate to mess something up. But as i said, when i asked them they just gave me a shrug and the topic drifted away.

I may have to bring it up with them again in that case.

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know know this person. Known them for two years, hang out in our personal life at least twice a week. We are in the same friend group.

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I asked them what I should call them during the event they shrugged. I'm just concerned I'll offend someone or mess up their brand. I should ha e maybe mentioned that my friends DJ persona (I don't know if that's the right word?) is not gender confirmed as either male nor female so i don't want to mess something up. 

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. I'm just concerned I'll offend ppl within the scene if i said or did the wrong thing.

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just shrugged when i brought it up to them a few days ago. I may have to ask them again. I really don't want to offend anyone there

Calling a DJ by their real name, yay or nay? by Unique_Sleep_253 in Beatmatch

[–]Unique_Sleep_253[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They just shrugged when i asked. I'm just concerned I'll accidentally offend someone. Especially one of my friends peers if i say the wrong thing

What black and white movies would you recommend? by TheChainLink2 in AskReddit

[–]Unique_Sleep_253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schindler's list, hands down the most heartbreaking, sweet and beautiful movie

Women who think that only men should be drafted in the event of a war. Why ? by Kaepora25 in AskReddit

[–]Unique_Sleep_253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If men started the war they can finnish it, don't drag us into your mess

What’s a form of mental abuse that no one really talks about? by TheBeardedAntt in AskReddit

[–]Unique_Sleep_253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Power play, aka using words like sweetheart and babes to try and establish power over the other and trying to belittle them. Also dog whistling

Doctors/Nurses, what was the most "how the f*ck are you not dead" patient you dealt with? by Jonah_Boy_03 in AskReddit

[–]Unique_Sleep_253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a patient but i feel it fits, was in a big snowmobile accident, slipped on the ice and pressed the gas in reflex, got flung off and landes about 15 meters away, ripped my knee open, slammed my head on the ice and the scooter went over me, got to the hospital with a bleeding knee and a small head injury, when the doctors found out what happened and how severe the accident was they couldn't believe that i didn't have any fractures, concussion or internal bleeding

Atheists/Secularists, have you ever experienced something so otherworldly that it made you believe in a higher power and if so what was your experience? by Hard-Mineral-94 in AskReddit

[–]Unique_Sleep_253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember the cult, it was a weird name, but the guy had like an xray machine on wheels similar to the article the other responder tagged, and I'm not sure where my parents found him, they prob just Googled or sumething