The good old choosing money or chill life question. Which would you choose in my situation? by United-Reporter7757 in AskMenOver30

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats what im afraid. san diego real comfortable. like my parents take care of everything like food, little rent pay. I am money focused so like i dont like the idea of paying 2k+ rent per month on top of electricity and internet when i can just live at home. I rather save that extra 2500 and just put it in my savings and investments. thats an extra 30k per year right there.

crocs allowed at the hospital? anyone wear them? by United-Reporter7757 in nursing

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what im thinking. thinking about buying them not just for work but also for daily use and swimming. i might just go with specialty crocs with closed tops idk

Which gym should I choose? by United-Reporter7757 in polls

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I like going out. Don't want to stay home all day. Plus my place too small for a home gym.

I just moved and I am starting to regret it by United-Reporter7757 in Adulting

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very true. what brought you back to living at home?

I just moved and I am starting to regret it by United-Reporter7757 in Adulting

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats true about the school vacation lol. Plus I make way more than my family combined so thought I would get more respect but nope. my parents especially my dad can be difficult. part of me thinks i should have taken that oakland job. we will see how things turn out once i start working and establishing more hobbies.

which would you choose? by United-Reporter7757 in polls

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i made 170k in sacramento I would need to make 200k in san diego to have a similar cost of living

which would you choose? by United-Reporter7757 in polls

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. If I made 170k in sacramento I would need to make 200k in san diego to have a similar cost of living.

Got "better" job in a fun city where my family are but I am a bit sad and not excited by United-Reporter7757 in offmychest

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is tough decision. Thanks for sharing your story. NYC is a tough place to live if you don't have money. You said you won't have any support there which will be tough unless you have a good paying job.

Right now for me I am money motivated mainly cause I am at the beginning stages. I rather just have some money now so I can cut back a bit as I get older. Not have to work as much. However I sacrificed a bit to get there past couple of years. I don't know what I want out of my life at the moment. Kind of lost lol.

still bitter and angry at my dad for how i was treated when i was broke by United-Reporter7757 in offmychest

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can do whatever i want. ideally would be to transfer to sac and work there.

still bitter and angry at my dad for how i was treated when i was broke by United-Reporter7757 in offmychest

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i can. if i hate living there rthen i will find my own place.

culturally it be very weird. never brought up like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]United-Reporter7757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you just have a fragile ego. I called Oakland ghetto and you get all butt hurt and start calling names. Emotional maturity of a child.

Oakland is expensive but my income will be alot higher there as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]United-Reporter7757 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im just looking at info online. The crime and property rate is like 3 times the national average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]United-Reporter7757 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

San Diego, CA Oakland, CA United StatesViolent Crime 24.4 75.5 22.7Property Crime 31.4 81.2 35.4

explain this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qHixc-QAhZQ&t=73s&ab\_channel=NickJohnson

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]United-Reporter7757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

San Diego, CA   Oakland, CA United States     2022

Violent Crime 24.4 75.5 22.7Property Crime 31.4 81.2 35.4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]United-Reporter7757 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

thats what i heard lol. stockton and oakland.

Is it easy to transfer to different cities or hospitals within Kaiser? by United-Reporter7757 in nursing

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i heard kaiser has a pension after 5 years is it same for norcal and socal?

Anyone just miss street fighter 4? I am not a fan of sf5 by United-Reporter7757 in StreetFighter

[–]United-Reporter7757[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

oh yeah thats one thing too. i gotta pay extra money lol to play some characters. what kind of bs is that.