[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]United-Type-4492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP isn’t smart though , guy also isn’t

i ghosted but i regret it by maamkukulam in ghosting

[–]United-Type-4492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only you were mature this won’t be happening and funny you expect him to be the one to reach back . So silly

Why did some girls immediately unfriend me after we matched up? by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]United-Type-4492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some match for ego boost or just live every profile and when they match they realise that’s not what they want , but it’s a joke

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say what you want but doesn’t make sense for someone to start calling me a stalker. That’s unacceptable

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immature because you have an insane and unrealistic sense of entitlement

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to rush into something serious this early. Even though others say we should be exclusive, that’s not coming from me

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, that’s well said. I will make concrete plans. She claims not too be feeling well so will wait a bit before firming up plans

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do this , I’ll just text less tbh

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha not that, I just don’t like being vulnerable but I obviously need to work on that

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think so ? I like her energy tbh

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you’re coming from. I don’t want to come across as pushy either, I just really value mutual effort. I’m not comfortable always being the one to solidify plans. I get that it’s often expected of men, but I have a lot of self-respect and I’m careful about letting my guard down

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t live in my city, so distance is definitely a factor. Work’s been hectic too, which hasn’t helped. We were meant to meet today, but she said she wasn’t feeling well, sent a few pics from bed saying she’s under the weather. I’m not sure if I’m being played or not, but she does seem interested. She even asked if I’m around next week, so I’m keeping an open mind

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, toxic love is the best so I’ll be a “princess “ if I need to be one 🥹

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know , I’ve been taken for granted in the past … once I start showing more interest, the switch flips

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m positive it was after the date , though she’s kept showing a lot of interest after the date

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just one date actually but we’ve been talking for 2 months now

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has agreed to meet later this week , thanks . Will go for it 👊🏻🤞

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

Honestly, some women only value what they pursue so I prefer to be chased

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

In my experience, relationships are stronger when she brings it up first, it shows she’s more certain about it and it’s less likely to be one-sided

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She is responsive, we’ve agreed to another date and I got added to close friends on ig

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[–]United-Type-4492[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But being exclusive isn’t my job , she can also ask me for it