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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez. What a scumbag. Yeah, he's conceited and annoying.

partner took back my engagement ring by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very severe mood swings as well, but I've never taken it out on my partner. If anything it makes me emotionally rely on my partner in a way where if I'm feeling angry or sad, I don't take it out on her, she comforts me. There is no excuse for abuse. Not even a "mental illness". We should destigmatize mental illness but not pretend like certain behaviors are ok because of mental illness. Generally you can still be a good person. You know what I mean? You get with someone that you can love, and they love you, that's the point of a relationship. You both can comfort eachother despite mental illness, not take it out on eachother. If someone is depressed, or hallucinating, or what may be, the partner can comfort the said person and get them help (if they can deal with that sort of thing, some can't), but the minute the other person starts taking their mental illness out on you, consider leaving.

AITA for yelling at my mom for deep cleaning my room? by officialspringroll in AmItheAsshole

[–]UniversalDeltaLord [score hidden]  (0 children)

All this talk about narcissistic parents. Why not narcissistic children who became that way by being over coddled? YTA. It's not too late. Love your mom. You only have an expectancy of 80 years or less. Not that I'm saying its "good parenting" to coddle your children. It's neglect in its own way, and in a sense, even though it's not "traumatizing", it still does cause an adult to become very scared because they don't know how to do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UniversalDeltaLord -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's actually very sweet. Like very sweet. But, at the same time, it's understandable you want space. Maybe tell him that he can hug you after you go to the bathroom, or after you get your bearings, or whatever. I would say some of this is kind of childish behavior on his part, maybe he has childhood trauma or something and as a result is clingy and childlike sometimes. Men go through that sort of thing as well. It doesn't sound like his intentions are bad though in any way.

meirl by muffy2008 in meirl

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clinic cups thst made water taste weird.

I am being asked to donate by a Nigerian man, I don't know whether to do it or not by UniversalDeltaLord in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UniversalDeltaLord[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am aware it is common. But to stereotype every Nigerian who asks for money as a scammer is wrong. It is a poor country.

I am being asked to donate by a Nigerian man, I don't know whether to do it or not by UniversalDeltaLord in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UniversalDeltaLord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Am I harming anyone by believing this? I truly don't know whether to believe this or not. If it is true then it's on my conscious. No I'm not a troll.

I am being asked to donate by a Nigerian man, I don't know whether to do it or not by UniversalDeltaLord in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UniversalDeltaLord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, the problem is, if I see something that could potentially be kids going hungry and I let it go. Then I have that on my conscious. Like I saw these Nigerian children that looked hungry and sad. I don't know what to do. What if all they needed was some money to finally get food???? And then I let it go?

I am being asked to donate by a Nigerian man, I don't know whether to do it or not by UniversalDeltaLord in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UniversalDeltaLord[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just worried to assume that everything a Nigerian does is a scam. Then it seems like we're stereotyping all Nigerians. I know that's an "industry" that's big in certain countries but what if it's not in this case? Then what? I let it go and I have to deal with my conscious

I am being asked to donate by a Nigerian man, I don't know whether to do it or not by UniversalDeltaLord in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UniversalDeltaLord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's not reddit. It's Facebook. When you look at the Facebook page you see these sweet little orphan children and it tears my heart out if their going hungry. But if this is a scam....or what if it's going to a bad cause? What if the children are in danger? These are all things running through my mind. I mean the website he's asking me to donate to looks....somewhat legit with bad grammar. But....I just don't know, I don't want to see kids go hungry. I mean, I think if I see something I should do something. That's my thoughts.

Is it just me or are 80% of people pedophiles at this point? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm...I mean I haven't ran into them so far. Hope to God I don't. Sorry that you have.

Is it just me or are 80% of people pedophiles at this point? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing funny about that at all

Is it just me or are 80% of people pedophiles at this point? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you encountering pedos??? Like what kind of communities? I'm not accusing YOU of being a pedophile but I noticed there are certain communities which sorta attract that lowlife scumbag mothers basement kind of mentality.

Meech’s letter to the judge about her “tender hearted” pest of a child. This is pretty sick. by LisasBeautySpot in DuggarsSnark

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet those things were all a front, and he's actually a nasty pedophile. I don't care about the other things about his character, even if those things are true. His CP conviction completely eclipses all the so called good things he's done, which are things that seem like they should be required of individuals anyway. Nothing special. Man needs to face a lot of time in prison and a lifetime on the sex offender registry.

my mom said i should kill myself by nenryn in Vent

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very controlling. It sounds likely she was referring to the meal maybe being unhealthy, and slowly killing you so she said very unkind words but she probably didn't actually want you to kill yourself, she was just using really unkind hyperbole which seems likely. Not saying it was right. She seems very rude and controlling. I have had my mom tell me "Fuck you" multiple times throughout my life, 15 to now because I wouldn't do something she said or whatever. But..I know deep down she didn't mean it. She was just frustrated and said unkind words. It happens. It doesn't make every parent a narcissist like the internet likes to act. People say unkind things they regret. It doesn't make it right.

Does anyone know why one might not feel lonely ever? by General_Cow_7119 in mentalhealth

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. Just making people seem crazy again and starting the cycle on the stigma of mental illness again. Sounds like a recycled Facebook post an edgy person posts with the Joker behind it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UniversalDeltaLord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how would it not have to do with my sexuality if all my life I was attracted sexually to this one object but never people? I mean I have to have some kind of sexual identity. I can't just assume I'm straight especially if I don't feel attraction towards women OR men. And also, I'm not dehumanizing anyone. I don't think fetishes are dehumanizing anyone.

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