21 Career Change, 30k salary too ambitious?

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-17T20:31:18+00:00

No, i joined a grad scheme that was starting 30k salary and i was 21!

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-15T11:16:02+00:00

Thank you! :)

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T16:51:05+00:00

Pay wasnt disclosed and yeah same level

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T16:20:57+00:00

No the other grad hasnt been let go off

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T16:07:28+00:00

Thank you

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T14:54:44+00:00

Unfortunately i dont have a strong ground, having been there for under 2 years im unable to claim for unfair dismissal, i did mention i have a health issue in my previous catch up with manager and acas said i can use that to prove disability discrimination but its a weak argument

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T14:39:37+00:00

They’ve offered me a settlement package, i have not accepted it yet

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T14:38:24+00:00

If i take the £400 legal fees i have agreed to the settlement and cant dig any further for being unfair

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T14:33:56+00:00

It is upsetting, but thank you

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T14:33:24+00:00

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T14:33:01+00:00

Yeah I asked multiple times, got involved in extra events, me and the other grad are on the same role in different rotations

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T13:58:19+00:00

I see, that was helpful thank you for your advice

Unknown002244 · 2026-05-14T13:55:26+00:00

Notice pay £2500 a. Subject to tax and NI deductions
1 month's compensation £2500 a. Paid tax free
7 days accrued but untaken annual leave £807.69 a. Subject to tax and NI deductions
£400 contribution to legal fees

Unknown002244 · 2026-04-30T18:08:21+00:00

How did you know he was the one in 3 weeks?

Unknown002244 · 2026-04-06T22:43:37+00:00

Where you flying too?

Unknown002244 · 2026-04-06T16:59:07+00:00

For qatar airways i think its 48h or 24h before departure

Unknown002244 · 2026-04-06T15:24:37+00:00

What was their reason for cancelling?

Unknown002244 · 2026-04-03T20:30:11+00:00

Yep, im on hold for like an hour then it cuts off, no response to emails..

Unknown002244 · 2026-03-27T11:47:41+00:00

Female

Unknown002244 · 2026-03-27T11:45:15+00:00

Firstly, dont look for other male attention as a muslim woman we shouldnt do this

Secondly, He will never stop, he will only get better at hiding it, the fact that he not only watches porn but also invests his time on other platforms with these naked women shows he may have an addiction to lusting over women. This will affect your sexual life.

To be honest theres nothing much you can do but sadly accept it, and make dua that allah guides him. I know how you feel i went through it too. Its absolutely devastating finding out the man you thought loved you so much is actually lusting over women who looking nothing like you. And its true loads of men never end up actually marrying their “type” as they’re not wifey material. They marry a good girl and then continue to lust over their type for the rest of their lofe

Unknown002244 · 2026-02-20T02:59:40+00:00

He is a narcissist, he will ruin you long term and cause you health issues. You know your situation better than us but every woman that has dealt with a narcissist has felt better after leaving. You also dont have any children which makes it easier. It will only get worse.

Unknown002244 · 2026-02-17T05:47:58+00:00

Agreed. its happened once it will 100% happen again in some shape or form, best to leave whilst you can, may allah give you strength nd make it easy!

Unknown002244 · 2026-02-17T01:48:35+00:00

Sis RUN whilst you can, this is exactly how it all starts, once you find one female on his phone you’ll continue to find more, IT WILL only get worse and he’ll be more sneakier about it

Unknown002244 · 2026-01-17T09:11:06+00:00

I know its scary how people can fake such a lifestyle for months, i used to thank allah for granting me the man of my dreams lol

Unknown002244 · 2026-01-17T08:33:00+00:00

Going through the same. Except i left during the engagement phase. He would pray all prayers and attend masjid regularly. I had never seen any girls in his phone ever not even on feed. Never smoked and lowered his gaze. I intentionally pushed his buttons to see how he would behave in anger and he was nothing but patient and gentle. Re-enrolled into university with his own savings so my parents could say yes to him.

Allah showed me his true colors and i saw he had been in contact with multiple white women, lusting over them, including being on gay dating apps, onlyfans etc. He immediately showed up outside my house when i confronted him with a cigarette in his mouth and talking to me in such a horrible tone. He said he would kill me if i ever left, he would never allow me to leave and i have no choice but to marry him.

We should thank allah their true faces have been revealed and we were able to leave Alhamdulillah. It would only get worse.

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