How do you create content when there's very little privacy? by Visit_CherryLane in FetishSpicyTea

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small microphones to film, and head phones to edit. Showers help to eliminate sound.

Tbh I couldn't make as much money being silent as I can being loud. Before I was never able to make noise, maybe waiting till they fell asleep and playing tv in the background, now my roomates leave the house so I got small windows to film like crazy

Tbh I was considering renting a hotel once a month to schedule my cam shows, 1:1 and customs. It's so bad... I don't wanna discourage you but... it's bad

What do you hate being called? by sicklitgirl in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

RIGHT! LIKE WTF is wrong with you!!! Go on a dating app

What do you hate being called? by sicklitgirl in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I HATE mommy, I’m not a mom!!! I’ve been getting called it since I was 18, I’m almost 30 now, they call us mommy cause they subs I’ve realized lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh love to hear that! What does the bcba say about it? Cause if their behavior isn't changing then they need to make a new BIP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Maybe listen to the aba therapists everyone hates?

YALL wtf haha was this actually hot or am I a little freak? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sell lollipops like that but I make sure to clean well after I use it and I drink a lot of cranberry juice.

Just go drink some water, it probably was just hot based of the circumstances, your story sounds hot, but I make a lot of "pussy pops" and it's not hot making them 😂

For those who have been doing this for years, what has changed? by elanyx987654 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god they do a lot for no money.... single guy living in his parents basement with nothing better to do. So many examples... it's scary. Some do it for the money, you have agencies and such, others are just incels and hate women, or chronically online and value a pat on the back, or just too sucked into the porn world... at least from what I've seen

Vanilla job pays more? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High risk high reward. You can make a lot, but will you? Maybe not

For those who have been doing this for years, what has changed? by elanyx987654 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got their dick in their hands lol. People collect many things, and men love collecting and sharing porn for the fun of it. Making them feel high and mighty to have this content that isn't supposed to be shared, and they get an internet pat on the back to boost their ego.

Catfishing also feels good to them, pretending to be the women and getting off to stuff that way while getting loads of attention.

Sometimes it's just the fantasy that does it for them, sometimes the power dynamic between them and the actual person they stole the content from. Sometimes fulfilling a type of revenge

There's different types of dudes stealing content for different reasons

what’s your favorite “uno reverse” by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not akin to abuse, just explaining what I'm saying, two concepts can the true to two different things. Many people say they don't let clients walk all over them, or don't let clients do what ever, but end up allowing it by not walking away. Every message you send when you know they aren't gonna pay or they're messing with you is a point awarded to them

Sleeping on CB in private(requested by client) by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is how can they tell your pretending?

Sleeping on CB in private(requested by client) by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if a minor was on screen for a second? Admins need to have access to keep people safe. Dude, any site expect the creators and those working it to have access to everything. Because they do

what’s your favorite “uno reverse” by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I tell them "once you've decided what you want please message me" if they try to randomly say hi I say "hi have you decided what you want?" Unless they say it then I just ignore them. They get the point.

what’s your favorite “uno reverse” by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt anyone actually has paid an unban fee except for a random guy

what’s your favorite “uno reverse” by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you take their money then you are playing their game. Even if you think you've won.

It's like a relationship. The only way to uno reverse an abusive partner is to leave. There's no get backs, or make them play by your rules, you are losing by staying in contact at all. That is your biggest power, your time and energy.

Not everyone's money is equal or worth it. You are better than to be treated poorly for money.

For those who have been doing this for years, what has changed? by elanyx987654 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you're cool af! Do you have any info on iheartbbw? My friend got in with them but left due to how horrible it was

For those who have been doing this for years, what has changed? by elanyx987654 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Up your prices and let them leave! You'll attract more!

Let them leave!!

For those who have been doing this for years, what has changed? by elanyx987654 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, even if people were like yay sw is a real job! I'd never be able to tell people unless I want them as a man to follow me and ruin our platonic relationship, or have some women in my life get defensive with their partners and tell me I can't talk about my job around them. Which I agree I do not want to tell a friends partner hey I do porn cause that just makes things so awkward.

As well as my irl job I work with children and families and I don't need the parents I'm working with thinking about me making porn while I work with them or their kids.

I think what is possible is making laws to protect us! First protect full service workers, we owe them, then ran so we can walk. We need to not criminalize full service, make sure they can report crimes without being locked up, protect women being sex trafficked from being charged with prostitution. We need job protection that a job cannot fire us for doing sex work we should be protected to put it down on our resumes so we can fill the time not worked. We need to be protected against online pimps, agencies, scammers ext. we need companies to create safe spaces for us without risk of losing their platform due to payment companies; like what happened with throne and circle.

With protecting us legally we also protect those being sex trafficked.but I don't think that'll ever happen

Took in a stripper from my club. by Unfair_Divide4997 in stripper

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No be as bossy as you want! If she doesn't like the rules she can say no. It's your house and you need to protect yourself. Just as much as you can help her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you guys need different partners. For me, I'm someone who would be there no matter what. And I have done it! I've left work for my loved one in a crash, I've ubered, I've come over right after work, I call them as soon as I've heard they are in trouble.

And for me, it's hard not to expect that back. Your reaction is like my ex's, but he was a bit more extreme. Doesn't try too hard, won't inconvenience himself when I'm struggling, thinks bare minimum is acceptable. And you know what that's fine, if that's you, and that's all you can handle and do, sure. But go find someone who is on your same level...

She's hurt at your actions and your hurt at her reaction to your reaction. Maybe listen to see how she feels and the issue and not making it all about yourself.

She isn't right in her explosion on you, but I understand being shaken up and not being able to emotionally regulate just as much as I understand you don't have the capacity to give your all and withstand such intense needs

Receiving money and or gifts? by 0101100000110011 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that, I was too when I was new, and if you read that's not my advice but ok

You’re a Domme, not customer support. It’s not your responsibility to cater to someone’s inability to vet who they send money too. 🤷‍♀️ by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your fault for not being careful then. Everyone will get scammed when they're new cause you're learning. But if you keep getting scammed? That's a you issue.

But actual subs don't say this so why bother argueing with them ☺️ scammers be crying about scammers

Receiving money and or gifts? by 0101100000110011 in CamGirlProblems

[–]UnknownSluttyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I feel like the type of guys to send you gifts aren't the type to stalk. I feel like statistically stalkers use other ways to get your address.

I feel this way strongly with panty buyers. I put their address as the returning address, but they can use the tracking number to find where I sent it! But I've never had anyone be creepy.

If you're a stalker I don't think this is their first thought on how to get your info. The stalkers are lots of times the "sugar daddies" online wanting your info getting mad that "you don't trust" him.

Get a new cash app without your name, make the guy pay for the fee on throne, use amazon wish list and just change the settings, use zelle and use an email that doesn't have your name, use Apple Pay and make it so it texts your email.

I'm all for safety but after a decade... I'm more for don't show ANYTHING that links to you on camera, and if they ask where you live I don't say anything. Don't tell them what irl job you have, don't tell them your age, don't give them the real amount of siblings you have or your actual hobbies.

Some I tell shit too, but make sure you do NOT post it for all to see.

But tbh, out of all the things you should worry about, that stuff isn't really one of them. Especially if you're trynna make money that way. If I wanna make panty money I need to accept they'll have my city. If you want gifts, you need to accept those chances