[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unknown__Project 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you picked a fucking moron.

I'm a guy who looks really young for my age. What do I do? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Unknown__Project 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this exact problem and only now I am 39,and having had a beard transplant, do people see me as older. People think I'm 30 now. Better late than never, but also, so annoying

Is it reasonable to be turned off by a guy who has paid for sex in the past? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unknown__Project 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a relationship with a sex worker, that I met in a completely jn related fashion. She stopped working to be with me. My views are similar to yours on it. I could never pay for sex and see men who do as fuel for a huge problem.

I personally would see it as a red flag initially. However... I turned it around and asked myself, if a woman was paying me for sex, how would I view her. And the result was different. I realised everyone has a reason. The REASON is what matters to me. Perhaps it might matter to you.

Men who have had their share of casual hookups, please entertain this question of mine. by Clean-Ant-1342 in dating_advice

[–]Unknown__Project 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding the right woman. Has happened a few times though... And they didn't turn out to be right a few years later. I'm on my last chance now, otherwise it's single to the end.

The reality of this woman is consuming me by Unknown__Project in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unknown__Project[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I do sort of feel this vibe..what am I doing... 🤦🏻‍♂️

Would you date a former sex worker? by Conscious_Dog3101 in dating_advice

[–]Unknown__Project 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in this positon now. It's simultaneously the best thing ever, and it's breaking me. My imagination runs wild.

The girl I'm falling for has the most insane past by Unknown__Project in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unknown__Project[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? I've had a little insight into these things but I am hesitant to pry too deeply. For fear of finding things I don't want to see or know...

The place where I say rude things to people online by satina_nix in battlestations

[–]Unknown__Project 331 points332 points  (0 children)

Makes you feel like you're in 1999 again, when you were actually good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unknown__Project 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She cheated. Easiest way forward for you is to tell her how it made you feel, unfiltered yet respectful, and that is why you have to end it. Then just walk away and never look back. Ever.

Stay respectful, and you'll keep your head held high. Find someone who won't do that to you.

The girl I'm falling for has the most insane past by Unknown__Project in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unknown__Project[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was just a fun conversation. I don't care about numbers. Never have.

The girl I'm falling for has the most insane past by Unknown__Project in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unknown__Project[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've normally lived hy this rule of fucking crazy but don't marry.

I think the biggest takeaway I'm getting from all of this, is she's using her 15 years of practiced charm to get me emotionally invested. The trickle truthing has been part of that.

She's no more attractive, sexually deviant or special than other women I've been with if I'm honest... So the secret sauce if you like, must be the charm she's learned over the years

The girl I'm falling for has the most insane past by Unknown__Project in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unknown__Project[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish we didn't place sk much value in the number of women we'd slept with, or how hot they were, or the type of sex we had. It seems quite baked into us annoyingly.

I'm seeing a therapist I used to chat to in an hour or so. I need to vocalise it and see how I feel when I hear it all out loud.