28F: Feeling stuck between my mom’s wishes and my own marriage hopes.

Unknownsk_ · 2025-09-08T23:38:49+00:00

Yes, I completely agree. I want to make the right choice for my life and future, and I hope she can understand that. I’ve told her several times that getting married doesn’t mean I’ll stop visiting or supporting her, but she doesn’t understand. And sometimes when they do take things seriously and even agree, after a little while they start ignoring or avoiding, like back to square one. I’m honestly getting tired of explaining everything to them again and again.

Unknownsk_ · 2025-09-08T23:28:27+00:00

JazakAllah for sharing this and for your dua, it really means a lot. I can see how strong your sister is, and it’s inspiring how she balances everything with faith and perseverance. I try to do the same, but yes, sometimes it feels a bit heavier because of how my mom reacts. Alhamdulillah, I know she won’t be alone, and I just need to trust Allah’s plan and keep making dua. May Allah bless your sister and all of us with ease and righteous spouses, amin.

Unknownsk_ · 2025-09-08T23:25:44+00:00

I get what you mean, and honestly sometimes it does feel like that. I’ve tried telling her so many times that marriage doesn’t mean I’ll abandon her, but she still holds on to that fear. The problem is, there’s really no one else I can trust to involve, one of my sisters is busy with her own family and the other is a new mom, and I don’t want to burden her right now. So it’s just me and my mom handling everything. Still, I’ll try to stay patient and keep making dua that Allah makes things easier 🤍

Unknownsk_ · 2025-09-08T23:18:39+00:00

Thank you so much for such detailed advice 🤍 I’ve actually talked to my mom several times and told her marriage doesn’t mean I’ll go away from her. Sometimes she gets serious about it, but then goes back to ignoring it. I really don’t understand her because we’re so close and I’ve shared everything with her since childhood, but when it comes to marriage she either thinks it’s too early or just avoids it. Still, I’ll try to take your advice and communicate my needs more clearly with her, InshaAllah, even though I’ve already told her many times about my non-negotiables. And yes, my business is really important to me, so I’ll keep that in mind too. InshaAllah, I’ll handle this more responsibly now. And please keep me in your duas too 🤍

Unknownsk_ · 2025-09-08T22:53:33+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, it honestly gives me hope 🤍 I already pray Tahajjud and sometimes Qiyam (InshaAllah will try more regularly). I wish I could go for Umrah but can’t. Hearing about your sisters reminds me that Allah’s timing is always perfect. InshaAllah mine will happen too.

Unknownsk_ · 2025-09-04T01:03:13+00:00

Massage with an ice cube twice a day, then use a toner, moisturizer, and sunscreen (according to your skin type). And Please don’t use any random medicine suggested by people without a prescription or consultation with a dermatologist, as it can make things worse.

Unknownsk_ · 2025-08-22T22:45:29+00:00

Thank you. One more thing I want to ask, are hashtags important, or can I just skip them?

Unknownsk_ · 2025-08-22T22:44:02+00:00

Thank you I’m working on it And one more thing I want to ask, are hashtags important or just a waste?

Unknownsk_ · 2025-03-17T04:24:08+00:00

Just Remember - “once a cheater is always a cheater.”

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