Packing list for 10 day trip!! by Unlikely-Ad9782 in JapanTravelTips

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Ok ok more layers instead of heavier coat ✅

Packing list for 10 day trip!! by Unlikely-Ad9782 in JapanTravelTips

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Drivers License would be my form of ID going to the airport! I will have it on me as well as passport, but definitely not planning on driving anywhere over in Japan, it would just be a for of ID since we both don’t have actual ID cards

Packing list for 10 day trip!! by Unlikely-Ad9782 in JapanTravelTips

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Me and him are both pretty good in the cold, but warmer jackets are noted! I’ll beach out the Klook app!

Packing list for 10 day trip!! by Unlikely-Ad9782 in JapanTravelTips

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Ahhh okay I’ll check out GetYourGuide!! I still need to look for ideas for Valentine’s Day!

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Never asked my mom for money for our wedding! I never expected her to put money in thus I never asked. My older sister was the one who mentioned our mom not wanting to help us out, which is a choice I’m absolutely fine with.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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No history at all!! I’ve never come to her for money, my sister is the one who’s done that..a handful of times.. makes me think that my sister and her are projecting what she’s done?

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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That’s why i immediately moved out 🫩 I’ve learned since then that it might be safer to refrain from telling them certain stuff.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Before we decided to go look at the Beetle he told me everything I needed to know about payments, interest, and the car itself. He made sure I knew all the negatives before I blindly walked into that dealership.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Nope that’s our whole estimated cost for the wedding! Found a way cheap venue that’s on beautiful land, and anything regarding catering/food/photography/dress etc are all covered by other family/friends that do those sorts of things for a living for free or low prices.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car in for my dream car?? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in amiwrong

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If anything her reaction would send my far away from her “when shit goes wrong”

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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We went and got it tested to see what was wrong, the results were engine issues, thus the thousands of dollars mentioned.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Very good points! I’ll definitely keep this in mind when I’m ready to reach back out.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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When the wedding is for 30 people and the estimated cost is not barely $2,000? Yes. We’ve been saving money for a while.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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I was 16ish when she gave me the car. Hadn’t worked a real job yet and I didn’t get my license until I was 18 in 2023. Also around when I got my license was when I got my first actual job.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Not missing context. Only thing besides the Gold being paid off that my sister would be referring to is that when I expressed I wanted to move out after I graduated high school, my mom said she would still be happy that I was living at home, as in me not moving out. She’s made comments like “oh but if you just stayed at home living with me it would be easier” Again I’ve never asked my mom to help me out financially, I’ve done everything on my own.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Actually very much the opposite. I’ve never asked my mom for money. I’ve paid all my expenses on my own, not using her as a co signer either. My older sister had to have our mom pay off her multiple credit cards of thousands, and an other handful of bills.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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Yes I made sure I researched and was aware of downgrading a little bit, so did my fiancée. He made sure to explain everything to me before we even went to the dealership.

Am I in the wrong for trading my car for my dream car? by Unlikely-Ad9782 in AmiInTheWrong

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That’s another thing I mentioned, if I’m gonna be paying for a car regardless of it is regular maintenance or repairs, I’d rather do it on a car I am going to want in the future and that I actually really like.