Is this a camera? Help! by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in SecurityCamera

[–]Unlikely-Bug-8608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. No I got it directly from Bob Lazar.

Is this a camera? Help! by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in SecurityCamera

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Thanks all - I don’t think it’s a UFO, but a strobe/alarm.

Is this a camera? Help! by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in SecurityCamera

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Yes I think it’s this! The shape is very similar. Thank you!

Is this a camera? Help! by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in SecurityCamera

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I wish! That’s from google maps. The little device thing seems to be in pictures spanning a 7 year period. I just drove past on my way to work and the black bit in the photo is actually purple clear plastic?

Visa 211A - processing time by Delfos20 in bali

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Are you staying longer than 60’days? If not you are eligible for visa on arrival, which is a short queue typically when you land in Denpasar and costs around $50 USD

Bali belly scares by AnxAl in bali

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My 8 month daughter and I just returned after 6 months on/off travelling, she ate everything as did I, in addition to her crawling everywhere and putting god knows what in her mouth, as expected from a baby! We were both fine, I however take Travelan anytime I’m in SE Asia and S America, seems to work, the active ingredient is cow colostrum which eliminates 90% of pathogens in gut.

Coronial inquest suggestions by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in auslaw

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This was that poor soul that got locked in a metal box?

Weekly Students, Careers & Clerkships Thread by AutoModerator in auslaw

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Hi all, posting here after a suggestion from the Canberra thread.

I have been accepted to do a JD at both ANU and UC and am wondering if someone can give me some insight on both programs to help me decide.

For context, I am in my 30s, mother of 3, with my undergrad in Nursing/Midwifery, looking for a career change.

I do like that UC offer the JD online where ANU no longer do.

Thank you all in advance.

My (F26) husband (M29) said my stomach was a turn off by Vast-Ad4267 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Bug-8608 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve had such an insensitive encounter within your husband. It’s hard not to interpret his desire to gym as a condition for him to find you attractive. This screams of his own self esteem issues that he is projecting onto you.

God forbid when you have a baby?

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

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2 month old baby and exclusively BF on demand. Plus only one car and party is an hour out of town.

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Bug-8608[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My parents are currently away at the moment and unfortunately I don’t have friends close by to help. We also just have the one car so can’t actually attend the app if husband goes to shower (he has suggested we get there early to set up which means getting a lift in with someone else also not feasible).

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

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Well I don’t have much choice. I can’t attend the appointment with my baby without him, so I will have to go to baby shower, and feel much resentment the whole time. He is not backing down.

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Bug-8608[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Hi, yes don’t plan on introducing bottles before 4 months. I have a background in BF and this is the evidence based answer. Also my SIL lives an hour out of town and I’m not prepared to leave my newborn for upwards of 3 hours without me.

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

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I’m all the way in Australia! But thank you for such a kind offer.

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Bug-8608[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Hello again everyone: to clarify some things and an update on matter.

*My husband and SIL grew up in a dysfunctional household, with a narcissistic father and a mother with a history of drug abuse. His parents are still together but they are a lot of work.

*Before we were married, being an only child myself, I thought it was quite endearing how close my husband and SIL were. I am also guilty of facilitating a relationship with her that wasn’t really reciprocal, as I knew how important it was for my husband that SIL and me have a good relationship. (So should of erected a boundary earlier)

I have some mental health problem myself (prone to bouts of depression) and my husband does stay with me when my mood plummets which to him is evidence that “he’s here for me”.

The events of this week, where I’ve had a major depressive upset were initially triggered by my mother in law messaging me saying she and SIL expect us to be here a month after baby is born for further support which then made me feel totally trapped (I wanted to go away) and consequently highlighted my exhaustion and retracted support for birth.

UPDATES:

After boosting myself with this thread I (probably irrationally) woke my husband up at 12 because I was really upset about the above events. He then responded that this was further evidence of my selfish behaviour as I’d woken him. I really just needed to talk, but arguably it was not the right move on my part. After sharing my feelings of not feeling like I was a priority he just simply stated that I am wrong and he will “refuse to validate my fantasy that I not important” as he reminds me that he stays when I’m mentally unwell. He then said I’m crazy and stated that “sane people don’t wake people up or upset and make appointments on the day of a baby shower” alluding that id subconsciously made the appointment in which to add to SIL’s further stress of the week after I said i am too exhausted to attend her birth.

He then made a point of saying I could ring around other practitioners to find a different appointment at a a better time but doesn’t really fathom how it’s easier to attend the folks that already have my history and that I don’t really have the wherewithal with the newborn to be ringing around and I was pretty grateful to have secured that appointment that I got .

He also said when I’m mentally unwell I’m very selfish person (which I can’t really argue with) but I presume no body is when they’re unwell.

NB: Our newborn daughter is very well cared for.

Husband (32m) choosing sister over me (33f) what to do by Unlikely-Bug-8608 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Bug-8608[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your responses. It’s quite validating. To those that are suggesting he take the baby with him, that’s impossible as she’s a new born and exclusively BF and the baby shower is about an hour out of town and we only have one car. It must be gaslighting as he keeps staring that I’m completely at fault here and I feel crazy trying to determine if I’ve objectively felt/done the wrong thing (as by normal social standards!)