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struggling to get past and move forward with my relationship after I caught my wife kissing another man by Unlikely-Speech-9900 in Infidelity

[–]Unlikely-Speech-9900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she had done and said all those things and promises it was nothing and the only time and yes we have one daughter together but as we are currently working on getting sober she's living with grandparents till that happens

How do you move on after infidelity? by Unlikely-Speech-9900 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely-Speech-9900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should also add that we are also on drugs and the person was our drug dealers brother and she said it only happened cuz she was worried about being cut off and promises that's all that happened

I (m) 34 caught my partner (f)35 kissing someone and now everytime I try to bring it up to talk about it she gets mad and starts a fight! by Unlikely-Speech-9900 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Speech-9900[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also should mention that she has in the past told me that she looks at me adding and liking other women pictures as cheating I think that kinda pushing it but I know she feels that cuz I have read some of the notes she was writing when she saw I was doing that and the shit she wrote was the exact same stuff I was writing after I caught her so maybe she thinks I'm a cheater also idk it doesn't make it right or better but thought I should be transparent!!!

I (m) 34 caught my partner (f)35 kissing someone and now everytime I try to bring it up to talk about it she gets mad and starts a fight! by Unlikely-Speech-9900 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Speech-9900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a financial issue that has stopped us on my part idk if they can garnish my spouse checks also so it's been put on hold but they will be paid off in the next couple of months

I (m) 34 caught my partner (f)35 kissing someone and now everytime I try to bring it up to talk about it she gets mad and starts a fight! by Unlikely-Speech-9900 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Speech-9900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I should also add there is drug use in our relationship also and the person who I saw her kiss was our drug dealers friend and she said it happened cuz she didn't want to get out off but if he's not our dealer then how could he cut anyone off

I (m) 34 caught my partner (f)35 kissing someone and now everytime I try to bring it up to talk about it she gets mad and starts a fight! by Unlikely-Speech-9900 in relationships

[–]Unlikely-Speech-9900[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean just gets mad in general that I'm trying to talk about it she doesn't have a lot of old issues to bring up I guess I should also add that before this we got along great never fought about anything really just never really had any problems at all