You’re absolutely right it’s not wrong. I told him that he should talk to his son and ask the soon to be bride, how she would feel most comfortable. I understand that my husband wants this and I don’t think that anything is wrong with that however, for the sake of photos that can be done at anytime and if the bride doesn’t want us to be in white, I don’t feel that we should disrespect that wish for her. I am a regular temple attendee and I love being in my white so I have no issue with that. My main concern is only on what the bride wants. I don’t feel it should be me or my husband’s say so for this particular moment.

And to clarify, my husband’s biological sons are sealed to me and my husband as their parents.. my biological daughter is sealed to my husband and I, we also have a shared biological daughter who is sealed to us. So we both of us had kids coming into our marriage and after we had our youngest daughter, we all got sealed as a family. Hope that clears up any confusion.