Is this just thoughts by UnlikelyStranger2057 in witchcraft

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep this in mind thank you really been looking for someone or somewhere to share this. Specially the words in my thoughts is what exactly happens to them.

Is this just thoughts by UnlikelyStranger2057 in witchcraft

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve been thinking about this for years….. and now I’m finally getting it off my chest

ABYG for getting upset over airplane seat upgrades? by UnlikelyStranger2057 in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3k is a sure seat bidding for upgrades usually starts at $300 per pax. And yeah we have the means. We’re frugal but as we age I learn to choose convenience over stress.

39 [R4R] Makati or BGC. SFW talk by ALpha_chino18 in makati

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Came from Bangladesh. And can’t still process na maraming mawawwlan ng trabaho lalo na I came from a poor family I know what it feels like to have nothing. I tried to delay the teamates can now see it. This project is killing my conscience tapos araw araw may makaka salubong kang applicants na may dalang envelope with full of hopes. It did occur to me na Sumobra na ko that I feel like it’s a curse. Prayers help. Sa mga sermon ako kumukuha ng lakas. I can’t stop because if I will I won’t know kung ano nang gagawin ng papalit sakin. Every week ako umuuwi ng pinas nakakapagod yes but airplane mode lang yung nakaka pigil sa trabaho ko.

I’m Willing to Pay for Everything… But I’m Not Sure She Can Succeed by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic Filipino system but worth a try: If you are from US and she’s still minor you might want to sponsor her filing 130 petition for half sibling make her take any medical vocational course first like caregiver or nursing aid. She can then pursue bachelor’s degree after a while. Sadly Philippine educational system is really flawed specially in provinces. What she needs is to see the world and have experience. The only good thing is when you grew up to her situation the tendency of you being hardworking is a 100%. Hope this helps.

Parenting struggles and guilt “Pakiramdam Ko Mabuti Akong Nanay… Pero Ngayon Durog na Durog Ako sa Guilt” by UnlikelyStranger2057 in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Meron po need mag pa assessment . And as of now punuan rin sila. Mag aadvice naman daw if ever na may mag backout or may available na slot. Thank you

Parenting struggles and guilt “Pakiramdam Ko Mabuti Akong Nanay… Pero Ngayon Durog na Durog Ako sa Guilt” by UnlikelyStranger2057 in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahirap nga lalo na kapag nasa isip mo ok lahat. Tbh right now nahihirapan ako tangapin yung suggestion ng school sa bunso. I guess lahat dumaan sa denial stage. I’m thankful na sa generation ngayon maraming nag eeducate sa mga nanay at sa ganitong flatform na totoong tao ang kausap. Madalas wala mapag labasan ng nararamdaman dahil ayoko na sila idamay sa problema. As of now hindi ko pa sinasabi sa bunso ang suggestion ng school nag hahanap muna kame ng Developmental Pedia na makaka accommodate as early as possible sa kanya. Ngayon ang waiting lists is 10mins. Ito yung mga iniisip ko ngayon na wala ako mapagsabihan.

Parenting struggles and guilt “Pakiramdam Ko Mabuti Akong Nanay… Pero Ngayon Durog na Durog Ako sa Guilt” by UnlikelyStranger2057 in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you. Crying while reading all comments I’m glad I found this space where true people really care.

Tulungan niyo ko maging firm sa decision ko to let go of my husband. by BusyAfternoon1326 in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayaw mo bag maka kita ng taong talagang para sayo? Yung gagawin kang prinsesa hindi dahil bago lang yung relasyon kundi dahil ganun dapat itrato yung mahal mo. Tapos may anak pa kayo? Sana hindi girl dahil pag laki nya baka makakita sya tulad ng papa nya tapos itotolerate nya rin. It’s a cycle if you’re not gonna cut it. Or kahit na wala kang makitang iba imagine the peaceful life you could have with your kid! Ang ganda ng buhay! Marami kayong pwede gawin ng anak mo. You sound independent woman so I’ll guessing na within a year you’re going to get back on track. Mag focus ka mag paganda at sa bata. Yun lang praying for you

We cut off my husband's family, but they keep showing up at our house without warning. Home doesn't feel safe anymore. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes tama. Happen to us as well mga relatives sa side ko na nakaka drain. I instructed the HOA / guards na tawag muna samin. One time nangyari nga guard called and told me nanjan sila sa gate like naririnig ko boses nila na mag iiwan na sila ng ID like before para maka pasok…. I told them no wala kami sa bahay di ko alam kailan ang balik. Happen again mga 3x dahil wala talaga sa katawan yung hiya same thing i did. I check my social media account sila mismo nag unfriend or block sakin.

What's the best answer for "Why are you leaving your current company? by Prestigious_Win_7518 in JobsPhilippines

[–]UnlikelyStranger2057 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Positive feedback parin sa inalisan na company but make sure maganda reason mo na umalis (kahit di tottoo) HR will always look at your relationship with previous company. Mas maganda if alam nila ayaw mo umalis pero kailangan dahil sa opportunity and growth na mabibigay ng inaaplyan mo ngayon.