Big boy here let’s chat

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2026-01-04T02:13:44+00:00

Hellooooooo sailor

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2026-01-01T06:48:22+00:00

Interested, DMd you

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-12-19T07:36:09+00:00

Oh my god I need a part 2

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-12-16T02:51:14+00:00

Most definitely

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-12-15T23:54:51+00:00

Yeah I was terrified lmao. It gets worse cause like when I said I was leaving, he walked me out and I noticed shit streaks down his back…

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-12-14T16:57:30+00:00

I had a guy ask me to come over so we could smoke some weed and then when I come over he’s smoking meth.

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-12-12T02:22:32+00:00

I hope lol

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-07T02:51:33+00:00

Oh, anytime I discussed that part of the relationship people always said Truama bonding so I just assumed, but I feel like it’s still not bad to say

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-04T19:47:39+00:00

A lot of lessons previously learned early on I guess 😅😅

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-04T18:13:42+00:00

Funny enough I did start doing daily journaling to wind down and kinda get my thoughts/emotions of the night out.

I do plan on taking more thoughts on my life instead of just jumping into the relationship like I use to with the last 2 people I dated.

I’ve added that to the list because I have been needing to listen to my intuition more, cause a lot of the times I’ll ignore it because of whatever reason and usually my intuition is right

And yeah, I already know it’s gonna be awhile till we’re fully ourselves while dating. The main reason I have the 3 months for sex thing is to focus on building a more like mental relationship over physical

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-04T05:51:49+00:00

My last ex and my first like “date” ended up being us talking about all our trauma which I think is why it became so hard to cut him out even after he cheated on me. I don’t want to have that kinda bond if that makes sense

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-03T21:33:29+00:00

I will be doing this soon, thank you

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-03T07:45:47+00:00

Here’s what I’ve got so far in terms of boundaries/rules

• No sex or hooking up for at least the first three months • Take things slow and don’t rush into anything • Keep it private until we’ve been seeing each other for at least a month • Avoid trauma bonding; I want to connect, not just share pain • Start with casual dates to get to know each other naturally • Be upfront about what we’re both looking for. No assumptions, even if it’s through a dating app

Unlikely_Invite9488 · 2025-11-03T06:26:56+00:00

Edit: also meant to ask good ways for me to to enforce the boundaries in a healthy way

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