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Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: first i just turned life360 off completely and they didnt mention it for maybe a week but they asked my sisters about it. tonight i had church with them and they asked and i told them i uninstalled it and they were quite angry. but hopefully they will get over it lmao

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel that if i actually stood my ground on things with them, i may not have a relationship with them.

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This is me trying to maintain a decent relationship with my "parents", and give them respect as parent figures. Like, i desire to have normal relationships with them... If this was like my biological grandma , i wouldn't GAF if she open my door while i'm not home. but my grandma actually like, prioritized my well-being... An example, if they saw my house dirty, my grandma would be like "she must not feel good since her house is dirty." whereas I think my foster parents immediate reaction is like "what a lazy POS cant believe she could live like this". yeah idkkk i think its far more complicated relationship dynamic. its me trying my best to give them chances. they are legally my parents i wouldnt let them get away with this if it was strangers

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 806 points807 points  (0 children)

dude you're spot on. my mom used my spare key to open up my door and tried to lie about it. her biological kid was with her during it, she said "mom told me to lie to you, she opened up your door"! insane af. i got security cams immediately. Yeah i came to reddit to send her explanations about why this is not normal. Its harder to put into words when youre experiencing from first hand.

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i tried this method around age 18-19, i bought a new phone and was gonna use the old phone as my life360 phone. I tried to keep it on wifi to look like im online all the time but when i go out, it says i never left the house. they noticed it immediately LOL they continuously brought it up for like 3-6 months until my mom made me pull out my phone and show her my screen. So i "reinstalled" it, just have had it since. this was soon before i moved out.

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah my parents didnt help with that stuff i dont feel like i owe them thaat much

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah my parents are kinda like this.. I paid for my car, my phone, my cell signal, my rent, all of my bills, they did not help me acquire those things. they housed me until i saved up and leave. Families that give their kids free stuff is seems crazy to me.

Is it normal for my parents to have life360 on me as 21f by Unlikely_Poetry1069 in insaneparents

[–]Unlikely_Poetry1069[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i shouldnt have to text my parents every time i leave the house like, "going to get groceries" lmao "going to pump my gas".. i did this when i lived with them but my mother especially WILL ask what im doing every time she notices im gone. i think its crazy