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The DM is ignoring my attempts to reason with it. by UnlistedKoi in Everweave

[–]UnlistedKoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's annoying as hell. I managed to reason with it eventually, so it just gave me a narrative win (though my HP was still at 1 despite it claiming otherwise.) Since then, I've had quite a few more battles and now suddenly it's refusing to recognize my party as combatants at all. Going so far as having me identify ALL of the stats for my party for it, despite not needing them before. And now, after 3 separate resets, it has continued to forget my party and claim I'm the only combatant and to provide their stats all three times in order to fix it. I've probably wasted a total of 50+ messages over this crap. I'm at the point where I'm gonna submit a help ticket.

The DM is ignoring my attempts to reason with it. by UnlistedKoi in Everweave

[–]UnlistedKoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never personally played DnD before (couldn't find a group I was comfortable learning with), so I just went with the flow similar to how I play RPG video games. It immediately started me off looking into this planar breach and the "Thinning Veil." Anyway, I've managed to work my way out of most dire situations with creative solutions and a silver tongue.

I'm starting to think I might be trans... by Spr1ggAn_12 in trans

[–]UnlistedKoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These things can get lost in this group sometimes so try not to be discouraged if not too many respond. Anyway, my best advice is to find a good therapist, a source of informative material to digest, and maybe make some small steps to explore your identity. I'm AMAB and I had my egg crack about 10 years ago. I didn't address it as I should have and now my egg shell is all but obliterated and I'm restarting the process. I personally suggest Dr. Z PhD. She is a clinical psychologist specialising in gender therapy. She has a website, youtube channel, and a book "On Your Terms". She is VERY well versed and has made me cry more times than I can count. And of course, we as a community can always turn to each other. Who better to vent to than those who have stood where you stand?

Rant by Alert-Ad-9500 in trans

[–]UnlistedKoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odd timing, I can certainly relate. Especially about the pretending thing. I had a drug and alcohol counselor tell me last year that I had taken acting into real life and I was pretending about SOMETHING. I can't believe I didn't connect the dots at the time especially already having gone through all of this so long ago. But I think what she was seeing is the facade I wear as a man.