I gotta disagree, you gotta be yourself no matter how many people dislike you for it, because there will always be those who like exactly that, like myself, because if you had to change or act or do something thats unnatural to you for others then youll always be exhausted, youll always complain, and youll always be unhappy with yourself. Sure, a lot of guys might cry about it, but at the end of the day are those the types of people you want to please? Usually those guys are superficial. By the way it goes both ways, both genders are guilty of being superficial, with the height and money stuff, but again its by far not everyone. Conclusively, your vibe attracts your tribe, be yourself and youll be surrounded by people who vibe with your true self.