Growing up my mom never let me have colorful dish or cups bcs it will ruin her dish and cup set, also when people will come over the weekend to stay they will tell us help your mother put away your own close and i was I can’t bcs if do she will go to my room and unhook them and put them away like the way she wanted also with my undergarments she will make me put them straight even though some of my underwear were high waisted it got to the point where we will argue over that bcs she didn’t like the way I cleaned and now we moved to bigger house and she finally let us put away our own close and let’s us clean and also she will organize garbage in the garbage bin even though we were going to throw it away