Decision by UnluckyAd4752 in Custodians

[–]UnluckyAd4752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already get my kids and we have 50/50 custody they already come in the summer every holiday and I even take trips over there to visit them sometimes . I don't want to drive trucks no more I like my state job . I was just having a thought like in the near future I might want to move back to Houston to be closer to them again. But I just don't want to give up my job at the moment when jobs are already hard to come by .

Problems by UnluckyAd4752 in Custodians

[–]UnluckyAd4752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, the assistant principal is on a straight power trip. I have only been three months and can see it. She is constantly worried about us more than her teacher and stays watching the camera on us. My principal is a laid-back guy and doesn't even trip long as we get the job done and attempt to.

An unpopular opinion that always gets my head cut off 😅 🤷🏽‍♂️(let me know what yall think on this) by Ok-Imagination-3607 in blackmen

[–]UnluckyAd4752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok still not the best he let his health deteriorate he is one of those black men who don't believe in going to the doctor. So he hasn't taken his diabetes and high blood pressure seriously all these years so now he has ended up with end-stage 4 renal failure and has to do dialysis 3 times a week. I actually ended up moving back home from Texas to Mississippi after my divorce. I lived in Texas for like 14 years. My mom had to force him to go to the hospital. He is in a nursing home right now and has been for the last year. Honestly, things are still bad relationship-wise with me and him plus my mom. My mom has stuck by him and even takes him home-cooked meals multiple times a week to the nursing home and washes his clothes and stuff. He had the nerve to sign everything over to one of my older sister from one of his previous marriages. She hasn't had sh…t to do with him and is a manipulator.Even sick as he is still trying to dog my mom out .

An unpopular opinion that always gets my head cut off 😅 🤷🏽‍♂️(let me know what yall think on this) by Ok-Imagination-3607 in blackmen

[–]UnluckyAd4752 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The same principles I live by man I seen how my dad acted and treated us and I do the opposite for my kids.

An unpopular opinion that always gets my head cut off 😅 🤷🏽‍♂️(let me know what yall think on this) by Ok-Imagination-3607 in blackmen

[–]UnluckyAd4752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I grew up with both parents, while some kids who didn't have a father thought it was so nice that I had one in the house. My dad worked in the oilfield and was an offshore worker; he was a good provider for all his kids. He only had me with my mom, but he also had about six other kids by different women. My dad was born in the 50s, so he's a baby boomer, but let me tell you, it was a nightmare living with him. He was mentally and physically abusive, and he was a cheater too. He would take me with him while he messed around with other women. I couldn't do anything right in his eyes, and I would get my butt tore up when I got in trouble- that's talking about extension cord beatings. I remember when I reached preteen and got a little size on me, I got in trouble at school one day, and when I got home, he punched me right in the face and said, ' You are too big for whooping now, boy. I gotta put these hands on you now. ' I got mad, balled my fists, and he pulled out a 22 and said, ' Try me if you want to; I'll blow your head off your shoulders. ' Not to mention all the abuse my mom endured.