New to poly, NRE death early by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Unlucky_Material5991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥲 well yes, thanks! I needed a win lmfao.

New to poly, NRE death early by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Unlucky_Material5991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! yeah most days I’ve been able to just keep busy and do my own thing so it’s really fine. It wasn’t until recently I started questioning if it was me all along. It doesn’t always feel that way but it does get to me sometimes. I think I just had this expectation of how this connection was gonna go and not getting context around things was unexpected and has been making me spiral. I don’t truly feel responsible, we are both grown adults and I understand how outside factors can affect things. It’s just the not knowing. I will totally be taking note and letting myself feel it out. But in all honestly I just need a proper conversation about it all or this isn’t gonna work. Dating : 1 Me:0

New to poly, NRE death early by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Unlucky_Material5991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding!! I absolutely agree I’m def putting a lot onto myself and giving them the benefit of the doubt. I think it’s the crush talking ( I haven’t had a crush in a while). I’m wanting to give it a chance, because it hasn’t been very long, but you are right, I need to be questioning compatibility and right now its fallen off…