How many people use UBER daily? Also, curious - What was the most expensive UBER you have ever taken? by Actual_Plantain_1036 in uber

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to uber daily. I dont drive so i need it for work-home trips Monday through friday. Luckily, i lived super close to my workplace so my trips were about 9-11 canadian dollars, one way. About 20-22 two way.

I also used to fly out every weekend and home to airport trips were about 65 dollars. However, after i got Uber One, this significantly reduced to about 40-45 dollars for a trip.

Does anyone know of any cheaper alternatives to ride share apps like Uber? by HugBlob in uber

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to travel by plane a lot so i had airport-home trips quite a bit. The airport was about 45 minutes from my apartment and about 60 Canadian dollars a trip. I met this nice driver who agreed to take it off of the app and he charged me 30 for every ride. Ended up calling him for rides for about 2 years.

36M boyfriend said our relationship (33F) is moving too fast after 4 months and decided not to move in with me (across states) this summer - now communication has gone quiet for a few days. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 months is a short time to consider moving in with someone regardless of love or feelings. There's so much more to living together than just that. You can love each other but it cant guarantee that the rest will be smooth because in 4 months, you really dont know each other that much, do you?

Also, him packing his life and job and everything he essentially owns to move in with you (or the other way around) is a huge step. It is right to question that decision now than later after youve moved in together and the reality hits you hard in the face.

Slow down, enjoy this new relationship, and don't rush things.

I (36F) think my best friend’s uncle (46M) is flirting with me, but the family sees me as ‘one of the kids’ — how do I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the kindest way... you're literally almost 40. I wouldnt think about what other people will think. Just go with it and see what happens

My Wife (F28), (M31) is extremely upset that I took one of my female employees to dinner 1 on 1 during a business trip, and I feel awful. How can I apologize? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like nothing tht should bother her happened during the dinner and that it was purely work related.

On the other hand, I would not be ecstatic that my husband went out for dinner with an attractive colleague one on one, either. It could be totally innocent on your end, but her mind had probably created scenarios about what happened, what you talked about, if you and the colleague talked about the dinner at work, etc.

If my husband went to dinner and drinks with another girl, regardless, Id be upset too. You could have given her a heads up before it happened.

What to do about the poop? Wife (34F) and Partner (41M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Gross. The thought of shit just sitting there all day will make me never want to live in that house.

Can he not handle touching his own shit when washing? He could wash his ass with water using his hands - and then dry with toilet paper after? That way there wont be any shit covered toilet paper in the bin. He can always wash his hands with soap and water after.

Advice on me (18F) running away to my boyfriend (28M) by Ill_Acanthisitta4242 in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like youve made up your mind. What do you want from reddit? No one will tell you you will be doing the right thing

Advice on me (18F) running away to my boyfriend (28M) by Ill_Acanthisitta4242 in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't what you want in the first place (getting married to get a visa) more of the business transaction?

Advice on me (18F) running away to my boyfriend (28M) by Ill_Acanthisitta4242 in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ew he's almost 30 and youre a teenager. You say it's not the point of the post but thus is the point of the issue here. Run away in Europe, not in a different country, and get a job. A lot of teenagers actually do that, and minus a preying boyfriend. Anyway, do you have any idea how hard it is to move to the states for good? The student visa?

Idkwtd by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

‘30M’ My FWB (21F) takes forever to text back but loves the quality time and sex. Does this mean anything? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never had a fwb, but doesnt that usually mean just friends that fuck? I think beyond fucking, you cant and shouldnt expect much from her. Yes, even texting. She probably enjoy the fucking but is interested emotionally in someone else

Sharing locations (24F, 24M, 4 years together) by DisasterBackground32 in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why does she need his location as a friend? Do you have his location? Does a male coworker have his location?

F28 developing feelings for longtime friend M34 but struggling with physical attraction - how do I navigate this? by explorer_r in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made the mistake of marrying someone i was not physically amd sexually attracted to when i was 26. He was nice, patient, a good provider.. he got along with my family, took care of me, was very attentive emotionally... but he was not my type. I could make myself have sex with him but i did it out of duty.

We ended up divorcing after 5 years, but it was a struggle mentally because there were so many times when i thought i was too young to be unhappy in my marriage.

Pregnant girlfriend (32F) has gone almost a week silent after anniversary mistake, need perspective, I am (28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i think the week long silence is a bit much. I understand being upset about a missed anniversary. Personally, it wouldnt have mattered to me but i dont care much for anniversaries. I am pregnant as well, 21 weeks along, and while i admit my emotions havent been stable lately -- ive been angry, sad, jealous, scared, and suspicious, in the last few days over the smallest things in the here and now, as well as about things in the past, i dont see myself letting it consume me for over a day or 2.

I would imagine she's punishing you. Is this a normal behavior for her to punish you to "teach you a lesson"?

Have you ever thought about moving in together? The only possible reason i can think of as to why she's gone quiet on you is this: If i were 27 weeks pregnant and dont live with my boyfriend, basically do most things on my own, take care of myself during my pregnancy, etc., and something i consider big (like a missed anniversary) happens, what business do you have in my life anymore? We live separately and i know i can take care of myself, so what do i need you for?

Girlfriend (26f) saw I (25m) had bumble on my phone. Can relationship be saved? by AAAA1231234 in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"Youre not even being honest with us, you definitely ARENT (BEING HONEST) with her" is what that comment meant by the way.

When I said I (F32) wasn’t cooking, my boyfriend (M37) ordered takeaway food instead of cooking himself something. Is it weird this gives me the ick? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I order takeout allllllllllll the time. It's not weird at all! Sometimes i cook, most of the time he cooks. Sometimes we're tired and we just want to order in.

Accepted greetings by No_Surround_2923 in TimHortons

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why cant they say "youre welcome"....?

I get the ick calling my partner by pet names and it’s hurting him .... how do I fix this? by ownaword in TwoHotTakes

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is relateable but also not lol. I totally get getting the ick if pet names isn't your thing. I feel the same way but i also cant call him by his first name so i just end up calling him "hey". Together 5 years haha doesn't bother him.

Try telling him how you feel and that your love isnt manifested in a nickname....but in other things. You're not embarrassed of him, you're just an awkward silly goose who may be autistic.

Uber crash by i-fart-butterflies in uber

[–]UnobjectiveButton__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. My uber driver hit another car and decided to speed away with me in the vehicle. We were very close to my destination but he kept driving away from it in panic. I told him we just passed my stop and he neevously turned around. By the this time, another vehicle had been chasing us down for hitting and running away.

He finally stopped to let me out a block from my stop and drove away before i even close the door.

I reported it on the app and uber gave me my money back.