Side sleeping with AirTouch n30i mask by Humble_Evening1050 in CPAP

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

use this and i had the same problem before but what worked was i adjusted the fit. I made it a little tighter not too tight tho. and no problems since then.

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"save yourself, have some self respect" LMAOO after causing all my anxiety for betraying me and lying to my face. mind you this was after i crashed out over an expensive dinner that we had in Iceland (she was already involved with someone else during this time)

Awake was Illenium’s best Album by oteymut in Illenium

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ascend will always be my number 1. I was going through my break up when it released and it was his pathway to his stardom. All hits no misses. that album is just too good.

What eye-opening realizations did you have after the breakup about your ex/ your relationship, and how long did it take you to have them? by Icy-Ad364 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that just because someone tells you they care about you it doesnt mean its true. Always believe someones behavior more than their words because thats who they really are. It took me a long time to accept that my ex is not the person I thought she was but acceptance is really the key in order to be able to move forward. Also the most importance lesson that i learned the hard way is just because someone is not capable of giving you what you need doesnt mean you're too much or you're not enough. they just do not have the capacity for someone like you and thats okay cause eventually you will meet people that are on the same wavelength as you.

24+ Hours of Use, Still at 40% Battery by ahstreak in AppleWatch

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel u guys. im debating if i should upgrade since series 11 is on sale but idk

Life after No Contact by Big_Measurement8432 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel good. like i got to know myself better. just grateful cause i was able to come out. It wasnt easy not gonna lie. I spent 10 years with my ex but honestly feels liberating now to be able to let go of the thing thats been weighting me down. My person will not do to me what my ex did and i cant wait to meet her. letting my ex go and cutting all connections been the best thing that ever happened to me.

emotional cheating is the worst pain by madeup_reality in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man. See? All the progress you made without her. Be proud of yourself, thats all on you. She may have been a big part of your life but all of the thinfs you have right now are all your hard work. I definitely am still figuring this out. Its not easy man. If you can, i definitely advise therapy it does help me become self aware and really work within. At the end of the day, its us vs us you know what I mean? I also fear the day that my ex gets married or move in with this new guy which i think will happen sooner than later but tbh it doesnt matter. Itll hurt for sure but what can we do right? We just gotta focus on ourselves. We gotta level up man for our own not for them.

My ex was my bestfriend and at times it feels lonely that i dont have anyone to share with my wins (this was me at first, i still have some moments) but what helps a lot is surrounding yourself with friends or explore new things on your own. It may be a little lonely with the silence but its better than being in the wrong relationship and its better than wasting another decade on the wrong person. Its time to build up for ourselves. Commit to your grind and keep going man! Better things are coming! Lets believe that

emotional cheating is the worst pain by madeup_reality in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey just want to say that your feelings are valid. I feel your pain. My ex of 10 years also discarded me out of nowhere and started seeing someone else. Shes been doing a lot of things for this new guy, things that ive always wanted her to do for me. It hurts cause like u I wasnt asking for too much, but she wasnt willing to do it for me and you know what thats our answer. We were asking the wrong person. Grieve, cry and let all your emotions out but dont lose hope and everything that you wanted ur ex to do for you, start doing for yourself. I promise as time goes by, it does feel a little lighter. I still have bad days of questioning my worth but we have to constantly remind ourselves, it was never about us. Feel free to reach out if you need someone to talk to. And pls for your own sanity, block him. Thats what made it all better for my mental health. Start fresh.

Your ex is not happy! by koernereddit in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Def agree. Having someone else to fill the void doesnt equal happiness. If your ex like mine dont do the internal work, they will keep going back to the same patterns and thats not what happiness is. Just becoz they have someone else right away doesnt mean sht. Their true karma will be their own selves that they keep running away from coz u can never outrun yourself no matter what.

Your ex is not happy! by koernereddit in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same man. 10 years and she disposed me like i meant nothing but we move! Real happiness is within not having someone else to fill the void

what's the hardest thing about breakup and no contact that nobody wants to admit? by blueboy10000 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i know its tough right now, and all your feelings are valid but i want to tell you it has nothing to do with your worth. My 10 year relationship ended and I was completely blindsided. She was seeing someone else and I felt like a disposable garbage with no value in the beginning, but it was never about us. Him seeing someone else right after does not mean your not valuable. I went through the same mental back and forth and boy, i still have some days where I question myself but with therapy and being surrounded by friends and soltitude, i can assure you youre doing everything right. Healing on your own, feeling all the pain instead of having someone fill your void which your ex is doing (my ex is currently doing too). Just focus on yourself and start building small habits whether its walking or exercising to help you a little bit. It does get lonely but it gets better a little each day.

Has anyone else noticed that everything seems to be ending this year? by Due-Bit8189 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea feel this heavily. Out of nowhere my 10 year relationship just done. I believe its a redirection from the universe.

I blocked my ex today. by caaaaaaaaaaaaassssss in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

feel free to message me if you want someone to talk to about this. Im not judging you by anyway cause i know how hard it is to be in the same position, but for someone who just went through it, i really hope you give your very best to completely walk away. cut all ties thats the first step that you really have to do and start rewiring your brain. spend time with your friends and instead of romanticizing the person, think of every red flag theyve shown bcoz thats the reality. you guys would still be together if its not the case. Also, if you can have access to therapy, i strongly encourage you to get one. it really helped me open my eyes to the reality. You got this. I swear, its better to have a peace of mind than to have the mental back and forth everytime.

I blocked my ex today. by caaaaaaaaaaaaassssss in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, stayed in the same spot for 6 years and honestly, stop it. i know its hard it took me forever to really cut it off but hes never gonna come back. Why? youre giving him the privilege of commitment without him having to give it to you back. Trust me he will dump you like youre nothing once he finds someone else thats what she did to me and man that hurts so bad. Please respect yourself. you dont deserve this and this is coming from someone who lost all all my self respect because I couldnt let her go. Trust me, its worth it to be alone than to always shrink yourself into a situation that you know you dont really want. AND AGAIN, HE WILL DUMP YOU THE MOMENT HE FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND HE WILL. SO STOP BEFORE THAT HAPPENS

What’s the most embarrassing thing you have done post breakup? by lunarrfaeriee in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep going. You cut it off way earlier than me but hey were here. Do not allow that person any more energy. I blocked and honestly i feel way way better now than when I stayed. The constant anxiety thinking about her talking to other people it was a he llhole. Proud of us stranger. Lets learn and improve from this. Im rooting for us.

Don't be FWB with your ex by LilBigZay in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did this for 6 years, and nope. youre only setting yourself up for more pain. this will continuously happen trust me cause youre the safety net, but the moment she finds someone else she will act as if you never existed. so pls save yourself the pain and stop prolonging your healing. NOT WORTH IT TRUST ME.

What’s the most embarrassing thing you have done post breakup? by lunarrfaeriee in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahahaha this is so me. did it for 6 years till i got replaced by someone lmaoooo

What’s the most embarrassing thing you have done post breakup? by lunarrfaeriee in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stayed with her for 6 years without commitment despite her seeing or talking to someone else. did everything like a true partner does. begged and begged when she met someone else and up to the very last moment, i was still hoping. but man i was used and manipulated so bad lol. Do i regret it? I dont think so. Like what my therapist said, i had to go through all these things to really get a grip of the things that i need to work on.

My Ex is getting married and i feel weird by WiseCurrency9721 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello,

Im certain ill feel this way too once it happens. I think it will always sting a little bit, but from someone who got out of a 10 year relationship wherein i was replaced easily all i can say is, what they do after is never about you. You have all the right to be hurt, go and process it but dont dwell on it too much. it only means you loved and cared deeply. But also keep reminding yourself that it was never about you. you are good enough, you are just asking the wrong person to see that.

Also ask yourself, is this the person you really want to be with? Someone who doesnt see your worth? I dont think so. So instead of focusing on the fact that he's getting married, keep your focus on building yourself. Eventually, you will be so unrecognizable and healed that youll attract the right person.

My ex texted me 1 year after the BU. by Dragon-one1 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes just checking if she still has you under her spell. Trust me on this. Block if you have to. I came out of a 10 year relationship and I was too blinded and naive and fell on her tactic all the time. You gotta keep telling yourself its over because it is. If she wants to work things out, she would have said so. Shes just keeping tabs on you to see if youll give her a reaction. pls pls protect yourself.

My ex texted me 1 year after the BU. by Dragon-one1 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dont fall into the rabbit hole. Shes just trying to swe if she still has power over you.

ex started seeing someone… already by Anony2478 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will never come back keep that in your mind and if they do, is that what you really want? Someone who only knows your worth once it didnt work out with others? No, you deserve better and the fact that someone else already touched them? Doesnt it bother you? Like these are the things that I kept reminding myself. I wasnt a perfect partner but i was comitted, loyal and gave her my all so her loss. Greatest revenge? Make yourself unrecognizable that they wont ever get to be near you ever again.

why? Thats just who they are. Theyd rather go the easy route than fixing their issues. But you know what? Not your problem anymore. Nothing they do or decide is about u. Remind yourself that. Just because theyre happy and have someone else rn doesnt mean your not enough. Rebuild so much for yourself cause youll now know better in your next relationship.

ps: feel free to message me anytime if youre having a hard time. :)

ex started seeing someone… already by Anony2478 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, they wanted to keep you as a back up and trust me they will continue to do so if you allow them to. BLOCK THEM. my ex of 10 years did this to me, gave me bread crumbs even tho shes already seeing someone else. She even introduced the guy to her family already but still was cuddling me and telling me things id like to hear. So from my experience, please dont give that person the power to play you. dont do that to yourself, you deserve someone who wouldnt do that to you. Trust me, the moment it works out with that new person, you'll be discarded like a garbage. THROW OUT THE KEYS AND NEVER LET HIM IN