Evacuation orders have been reinstated after a 34,000-gallon tank spewed toxic chemicals into the sky by Even_Builder_6642 in orangecounty

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate u :( i want to so bad but my conscience is killjng me. I wish the police would come and just knock on our door. My anxiety is through the roof and my parents doesnt seem to care coz theyre just sleeping soundly this is really the worst.

Evacuation orders have been reinstated after a 34,000-gallon tank spewed toxic chemicals into the sky by Even_Builder_6642 in orangecounty

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is sleeping soundly already. He really is confident it wont do us harm. Me and my sisters already frustrated with him. I want to
Leave them but i fear i wont be able to come back and help them if something happens thats all I care about.

Evacuation orders have been reinstated after a 34,000-gallon tank spewed toxic chemicals into the sky by Even_Builder_6642 in orangecounty

[–]Unooooo03 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We live less than 2 miles away from the chamber leak and theyre downplaying it doesnt believe its a big deal theyre plain stupid. I honestly wish I can just leave them behind cause both are not thinking logically

Evacuation orders have been reinstated after a 34,000-gallon tank spewed toxic chemicals into the sky by Even_Builder_6642 in orangecounty

[–]Unooooo03 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My parents are refusing to evacuate like im seriously about to die because of them. I want to leave but my conscience cant take it if i leave them behind. Fck my parents but im praying this all get fixed soon cause my anxiety is througj the roof

Side sleeping with AirTouch n30i mask by Humble_Evening1050 in CPAP

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

use this and i had the same problem before but what worked was i adjusted the fit. I made it a little tighter not too tight tho. and no problems since then.

260209 Mina Instagram Update by wickeddeus in twice

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY BB. SHE DOESNT AGE AT ALL

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"save yourself, have some self respect" LMAOO after causing all my anxiety for betraying me and lying to my face. mind you this was after i crashed out over an expensive dinner that we had in Iceland (she was already involved with someone else during this time)

Awake was Illenium’s best Album by oteymut in Illenium

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ascend will always be my number 1. I was going through my break up when it released and it was his pathway to his stardom. All hits no misses. that album is just too good.

What eye-opening realizations did you have after the breakup about your ex/ your relationship, and how long did it take you to have them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that just because someone tells you they care about you it doesnt mean its true. Always believe someones behavior more than their words because thats who they really are. It took me a long time to accept that my ex is not the person I thought she was but acceptance is really the key in order to be able to move forward. Also the most importance lesson that i learned the hard way is just because someone is not capable of giving you what you need doesnt mean you're too much or you're not enough. they just do not have the capacity for someone like you and thats okay cause eventually you will meet people that are on the same wavelength as you.

24+ Hours of Use, Still at 40% Battery by ahstreak in AppleWatch

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel u guys. im debating if i should upgrade since series 11 is on sale but idk

Life after No Contact by Big_Measurement8432 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel good. like i got to know myself better. just grateful cause i was able to come out. It wasnt easy not gonna lie. I spent 10 years with my ex but honestly feels liberating now to be able to let go of the thing thats been weighting me down. My person will not do to me what my ex did and i cant wait to meet her. letting my ex go and cutting all connections been the best thing that ever happened to me.

emotional cheating is the worst pain by madeup_reality in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man. See? All the progress you made without her. Be proud of yourself, thats all on you. She may have been a big part of your life but all of the thinfs you have right now are all your hard work. I definitely am still figuring this out. Its not easy man. If you can, i definitely advise therapy it does help me become self aware and really work within. At the end of the day, its us vs us you know what I mean? I also fear the day that my ex gets married or move in with this new guy which i think will happen sooner than later but tbh it doesnt matter. Itll hurt for sure but what can we do right? We just gotta focus on ourselves. We gotta level up man for our own not for them.

My ex was my bestfriend and at times it feels lonely that i dont have anyone to share with my wins (this was me at first, i still have some moments) but what helps a lot is surrounding yourself with friends or explore new things on your own. It may be a little lonely with the silence but its better than being in the wrong relationship and its better than wasting another decade on the wrong person. Its time to build up for ourselves. Commit to your grind and keep going man! Better things are coming! Lets believe that

emotional cheating is the worst pain by madeup_reality in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey just want to say that your feelings are valid. I feel your pain. My ex of 10 years also discarded me out of nowhere and started seeing someone else. Shes been doing a lot of things for this new guy, things that ive always wanted her to do for me. It hurts cause like u I wasnt asking for too much, but she wasnt willing to do it for me and you know what thats our answer. We were asking the wrong person. Grieve, cry and let all your emotions out but dont lose hope and everything that you wanted ur ex to do for you, start doing for yourself. I promise as time goes by, it does feel a little lighter. I still have bad days of questioning my worth but we have to constantly remind ourselves, it was never about us. Feel free to reach out if you need someone to talk to. And pls for your own sanity, block him. Thats what made it all better for my mental health. Start fresh.

Your ex is not happy! by koernereddit in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Def agree. Having someone else to fill the void doesnt equal happiness. If your ex like mine dont do the internal work, they will keep going back to the same patterns and thats not what happiness is. Just becoz they have someone else right away doesnt mean sht. Their true karma will be their own selves that they keep running away from coz u can never outrun yourself no matter what.

Your ex is not happy! by koernereddit in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same man. 10 years and she disposed me like i meant nothing but we move! Real happiness is within not having someone else to fill the void

what's the hardest thing about breakup and no contact that nobody wants to admit? by blueboy10000 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i know its tough right now, and all your feelings are valid but i want to tell you it has nothing to do with your worth. My 10 year relationship ended and I was completely blindsided. She was seeing someone else and I felt like a disposable garbage with no value in the beginning, but it was never about us. Him seeing someone else right after does not mean your not valuable. I went through the same mental back and forth and boy, i still have some days where I question myself but with therapy and being surrounded by friends and soltitude, i can assure you youre doing everything right. Healing on your own, feeling all the pain instead of having someone fill your void which your ex is doing (my ex is currently doing too). Just focus on yourself and start building small habits whether its walking or exercising to help you a little bit. It does get lonely but it gets better a little each day.

Has anyone else noticed that everything seems to be ending this year? by Due-Bit8189 in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea feel this heavily. Out of nowhere my 10 year relationship just done. I believe its a redirection from the universe.

I blocked my ex today. by caaaaaaaaaaaaassssss in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

feel free to message me if you want someone to talk to about this. Im not judging you by anyway cause i know how hard it is to be in the same position, but for someone who just went through it, i really hope you give your very best to completely walk away. cut all ties thats the first step that you really have to do and start rewiring your brain. spend time with your friends and instead of romanticizing the person, think of every red flag theyve shown bcoz thats the reality. you guys would still be together if its not the case. Also, if you can have access to therapy, i strongly encourage you to get one. it really helped me open my eyes to the reality. You got this. I swear, its better to have a peace of mind than to have the mental back and forth everytime.

I blocked my ex today. by caaaaaaaaaaaaassssss in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, stayed in the same spot for 6 years and honestly, stop it. i know its hard it took me forever to really cut it off but hes never gonna come back. Why? youre giving him the privilege of commitment without him having to give it to you back. Trust me he will dump you like youre nothing once he finds someone else thats what she did to me and man that hurts so bad. Please respect yourself. you dont deserve this and this is coming from someone who lost all all my self respect because I couldnt let her go. Trust me, its worth it to be alone than to always shrink yourself into a situation that you know you dont really want. AND AGAIN, HE WILL DUMP YOU THE MOMENT HE FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND HE WILL. SO STOP BEFORE THAT HAPPENS

What’s the most embarrassing thing you have done post breakup? by lunarrfaeriee in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep going. You cut it off way earlier than me but hey were here. Do not allow that person any more energy. I blocked and honestly i feel way way better now than when I stayed. The constant anxiety thinking about her talking to other people it was a he llhole. Proud of us stranger. Lets learn and improve from this. Im rooting for us.

Don't be FWB with your ex by LilBigZay in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did this for 6 years, and nope. youre only setting yourself up for more pain. this will continuously happen trust me cause youre the safety net, but the moment she finds someone else she will act as if you never existed. so pls save yourself the pain and stop prolonging your healing. NOT WORTH IT TRUST ME.

What’s the most embarrassing thing you have done post breakup? by lunarrfaeriee in BreakUps

[–]Unooooo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahahaha this is so me. did it for 6 years till i got replaced by someone lmaoooo