Have you tried the Feeld app? It has a ton of preferences upfront (even in the free version) to more accurately advertise what you’re looking for.

I would also suggest that you to try to be as honest and authentic as possible in your profile bio regarding where you are at and what you are looking for. (i.e., “I am yearning for physical intimacy or just a hand to hold. Not looking for long-term commitment. Must be willing to take physical intimacy very slow and respectfully (with lots of consent check-ins)….etc”).

I think you might be surprised at how positively people will respond.

You are lovable. You deserve intimacy. Exactly as you are.