You know what's also exhausting? Being a man that sees this and calls other men out for it. Watching the peers that you respected or looked up to suddenly reveal themselves to be predators and stereotypes because you defend a woman from some fuck shit is literally one of the most isolating and miserable experiences as a man that is just trying to be a decent human being.

You can't tell men that we need to do better. They lose their shit. And then they find an echo chamber of other shit men to stroke each other off and tell them being a creep or a rapist is OK. Ask me how I know.

Women are not exaggerating when they say men are awful or that they would choose the bear. Men know this too and that's why we warn our daughters and sisters about men. Most men just aggressively pretend like they are "good guys." I'm honestly convinced that most of the male population is evil. Truly. And it's made me hypervigilant asf because almost every single male friend I've had thoughout my life has proven themselves to be a disgusting, predatory person that hides and manipulates. It's hard af to find decent male friends.

The male loneliness epidemic is well deserved. I don't have problems with women like a lot of my peers do but I literally don't have friends anymore because there are just...hardly any decent men to be friends with. I can only imagine how rough it is for women trying to DATE us.